Bad Experience with "Porn Stars"?

[MiamiLooker]

My favorite porn hire was Jake Tanner many years ago. You may not remember him but I'm sure you've seen his pictures:

 

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One of the most lackluster appointments was with Claude Jourdan from Montreal. He had a porn video playing during the session; it was one of his own vids...

 

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[adriano46]

Really interesting topic and some great input.

 

In my very first years of hiring, one summer day I talk a walk down to Chelsea to roam the video shops and ran into this amazingly built dark-haired muscle god. Followed him a bit --almost a game. Eventually I lost him in a crowd and then walked back uptown to Times Square to find a street hustler ariound the Port Authority (back in the day when you could find such). Soon around 46th Street as I was following a nice Latino, I ran into this guy again - he winked and I followed him into a pizza joint. We said HI and he asked me if I was interested -- hell I was in drooling lust. We got a room at a flea-bitten hotel on 9th and 46th and had wild sex for 3 hours -- for $75!!! A few days later, viewing some gay porn, I saw im there on the screen. Damn - hotter than our session, which was pretty hot.

 

In Europe I was constanty on the prowl for Bel Ami models, but they were like trying to find in the flesh some of the models for Active Service or Next Door Guys etc... Hell I wish I had Dirk Flamingo's job ust to be surrounded by so much man flesh and those are porn actors I doubt I would ever be bored with.

 

I have dated quite a few active actors who also escort (Brad Hunt - AMAZING! Ditto for Antton Harri! ) Idated quite a few well-known Hungarian porn actors and a few (fewer) Czech ones when living in Central Europe. The Hungarians generally were as good - if not better - in the flesh; Czechs were a crap shot. Have also dated some Russian porn actors who worked and still work) for Michael Lucas, and they are great. My rule of thumb is to see if others have dated them also, and see what they say in a review, then I take the plunch. Oh - another one worth hiring is Jon Ramsey.

[+ carlos45]

Over the years, I've had the pleasure of hiring a few porn stars, they were all great. Twice, I hired Alex Fuerte (an amazing body, the sex was satisfying). Brendan Austen (mind-blowing sex and a charmer with that fetching Aussie accent), once I hired Rafael Alencar (WOW!, such passion, and he has a good heart, gents!) Tony Bishop ( lots of fun! A young man with a good head on his shoulders) Justin Jameson ( When I hired him, around 2004, he was a sweet kid, who wanted to please and he did! I know some people have had less than stellar experiences with him, but mine were memorable.) Sometime ago, I hired Jake Deckard for a massage (he was amazing and I found him to be a sweetheart of a guy)....and finally in 2003, I hired the late Haus Weston (absolutely unforgettable, a soft spoken man that left us far too soon.)

[jjkrkwood]

Really interesting topic and some great input.

 

In my very first years of hiring, one summer day I talk a walk down to Chelsea to roam the video shops and ran into this amazingly built dark-haired muscle god. Followed him a bit --almost a game. Eventually I lost him in a crowd and then walked back uptown to Times Square to find a street hustler ariound the Port Authority (back in the day when you could find such). Soon around 46th Street as I was following a nice Latino, I ran into this guy again - he winked and I followed him into a pizza joint. We said HI and he asked me if I was interested -- hell I was in drooling lust. We got a room at a flea-bitten hotel on 9th and 46th and had wild sex for 3 hours -- for $75!!! A few days later, viewing some gay porn, I saw im there on the screen. Damn - hotter than our session, which was pretty hot.

 

In Europe I was constanty on the prowl for Bel Ami models, but they were like trying to find in the flesh some of the models for Active Service or Next Door Guys etc... Hell I wish I had Dirk Flamingo's job ust to be surrounded by so much man flesh and those are porn actors I doubt I would ever be bored with.

 

I have dated quite a few active actors who also escort (Brad Hunt - AMAZING! Ditto for Antton Harri! ) Idated quite a few well-known Hungarian porn actors and a few (fewer) Czech ones when living in Central Europe. The Hungarians generally were as good - if not better - in the flesh; Czechs were a crap shot. Have also dated some Russian porn actors who worked and still work) for Michael Lucas, and they are great. My rule of thumb is to see if others have dated them also, and see what they say in a review, then I take the plunch. Oh - another one worth hiring is Jon Ramsey.

 

What I find particularly interesting Adriano is your choice and use of the word "dated" which to me implies something other than a "PAID" encounter. Were the encounters you speak of

HIRES, or simply off the clock, pedestrian "dates".. ?

[down_to_business]

I will go on the record and say I have hired JLA 3 times, 2 of them were travelling weekend appointments. Even though he was a porn star he absolutely had no attitude at all and in fact was down to earth and humble. He's an incredibly sexy man with a great attitude and I always have a fantastic time with him. Highly Highly recommended.

[bigvalboy]

I will go on the record and say I have hired JLA 3 times, 2 of them were travelling weekend appointments. Even though he was a porn star he absolutely had no attitude at all and in fact was down to earth and humble. He's an incredibly sexy man with a great attitude and I always have a fantastic time with him. Highly Highly recommended.

 

I totally agree D_to_B....we are in negotiations as we speak...I really miss that man...LOL For any of you guys who haven't experienced that which is JLA....stop thinking about it and "just do it"

[adriano46]

What I find particularly interesting Adriano is your choice and use of the word "dated" which to me implies something other than a "PAID" encounter. Were the encounters you speak of

HIRES, or simply off the clock, pedestrian "dates".. ?

Sorry and should have been clearer - 75% per paid; 25% were non-paid. One guy in particular has often stayed with me for a day or a weekend or more - no money exchanged. I did help him financially in the past; now today he is off and running in a good career.

[jjkrkwood]

Sorry and should have been clearer - 75% per paid; 25% were non-paid. One guy in particular has often stayed with me for a day or a weekend or more - no money exchanged. I did help him financially in the past; now today he is off and running in a good career.

 

thanks for the clarification. After reading your original post and assuming your encounters were FREE, I asked myself WHY you would EVER have to hire in that case?

 

but now it is clearer....

[tsgarp]

I had a couple of nice experiences with Tory Mason. Then I started to hear rumors that he wasn't consistent in the safe sex department so i stopped hiring him. Still, he was great at his job.

[+ Italiano]

I hired Adam Champ, Jake Deckard (for a massage) Aaron Ridge (for a massage) and Arpad Miklos. No, not in the same day

 

Champ was a bit disappointing, very hot body but definitely not the masculine guy I was expecting...

Deckard gives a hell of a...sensual massage.

Arpad Miklos is gorgeous, a GREAT top, but his kisses were a bit dry for my taste.

Aaron Ridge was a so-so masseur but unexpectedly a FANTASTIC lover in bed!

[jjkrkwood]

I hired Adam Champ, Jake Deckard (for a massage) Aaron Ridge (for a massage) and Arpad Miklos. No, not in the same day

 

Champ was a bit disappointing, very hot body but definitely not the masculine guy I was expecting...

Deckard gives a hell of a...sensual massage.

Arpad Miklos is gorgeous, a GREAT top, but his kisses were a bit dry for my taste.

Aaron Ridge was a so-so masseur but unexpectedly a FANTASTIC lover in bed!

 

I am sure your information will be important to many. But as they say "you cant have everything"... even when paying for it !

[+ Italiano]

I am sure your information will be important to many. But as they say "you cant have everything"... even when paying for it !

 

Absolutely!

That's why I guess with a porn actor due to whatever seen on DVDs one tends to phantasize it and to try to "reenact" those scenes...

And definitely the expectations are probably too high, at least in my case.

 

My all time best hire has been Gavin from Chicago, who could definitely be (or could have been) a porn star if he wanted.

He delivered everything I would phantasize in bed with a hot big superhung passionate muscular masculine man!

[RockHard]

I'm ready for my close-up, now cum on my face.

 

(the porn actor) asked the money upfront...he didn't deliver...He didn't kiss or get down on me...Why is it that the more they are famous, the more they think they can show up whenever they want, let us worship them for a few minutes, ask the money and leave?

 

You can't generalize.

 

Sure you can. It's no secret: 99% of gay men who get into porn do so for two main reasons. 1) They love sex. 2) They love sex with hot guys.

 

It's easy to think the two careers go hand in hand, but they often don't. Escorting requires a skill set (you have to find enjoyment having sex with fat, older, homely men) that simply does not exist in porn.

 

There are some porn actors who see escorting as a way to augment their income through more sex. And some of these actors can actually perform when their partner is not another hot, salaried actor. But there aren't many and it's never automatic.

 

In my early twink years, I played with a few so-called porn stars. Not one to drop names, but remember Kip Knoll and Matt Gunther (to name a few)? I didn't have to pay, either. One of the best blowjobs I ever received was from a guy who worked in porn. I didn't know until after the sex was over, when I complimented him on his incredible skill.

 

I work with actors all the time, so any interest in sex with porn actors has diminished. I see very little porn these days. I have no idea who is or isn't in a sex flick. Plus, most are too young for my current taste.

 

The bottom line: if you want to have sex with a guy who enjoys a career in porn, it's best if you are hot and possess a very large cock. That's a generalization you can count on.

[Phil_musc]

My experience with the guys who have appeared in front of the cameras has been pretty good, I'd say. Generally down to earth guys who happen to have certain gifts that are exploitable.

 

But I agree with xafnndapp about Gavin.

[Decatur Guy]

I hired a porn actor in NYC this week. I didn't know he was one until afterward. Cool guy, fun attitude, huge cock. Name is Jake Havoc.

 

I actually let the other escort, Tom Isern, pick him. I didn't know who was coming. I was blindfolded for the first 10 minutes he was there. Very hot way to meet a guy. Review coming.

[Phil_musc]

Decatur, you are my new idol! I live through you! Blindfolded you say? Wow that's an exercise in trust - not sure I'm there on that one, but am intrigued.

[jjkrkwood]

I hired a porn actor in NYC this week. I didn't know he was one until afterward. Cool guy, fun attitude, huge cock. Name is Jake Havoc.

 

I actually let the other escort, Tom Isern, pick him. I didn't know who was coming. I was blindfolded for the first 10 minutes he was there. Very hot way to meet a guy. Review coming.

 

Well DG, if you were able to accommodate Mr Havocs girth, you are a MUCH better man than I am .....

[down_to_business]

In my early twink years, I played with a few so-called porn stars. Not one to drop names, but remember Kip Knoll and Matt Gunther (to name a few)? I didn't have to pay, either. ...

 

I remember reading that Matt Gunther was one of the fiercest tops there was on the planet and that when he fucked, it was without any regard for the comfort of the bottom at all- it was all about him. Curious what it was like being with him and if he lived up to that rep.

 

Thanks!

[Decatur Guy]

Decatur, you are my new idol! I live through you! Blindfolded you say? Wow that's an exercise in trust - not sure I'm there on that one, but am intrigued.

 

It was an exercise in trust, but only to a degree.

 

For one thing, I had been playing with Tom Isern for almost two hours when the other guy came over. For another, we had already determined he would choose the second escort, not me, and that he would let it be a surprise. I gave him a list of about 10 names/links, to show him my interests/range. He picked a guy not on the list, but that was cool -- and the biggest surprise of all.

[Decatur Guy]

Well DG, if you were able to accommodate Mr Havocs girth, you are a MUCH better man than I am .....

 

LOL. I wasn't sure I'd be able to. I think it attests to his skills as much as mine.

[+ poolboy48220]

I've hired a handful of porn stars. Blake Harper & Jason Branch, when they were together, they were spectacular. Ditto for Marcus Iron. Trent Locke, more recently, was good, and Matthew Ford was phenomenal. The two lesbians next door asked who that gorgeous guy was. :-) The only disappointment was Steve O'Donnell, it was kind of mechanical.

[Decatur Guy]

I've hired a handful of porn stars. Blake Harper & Jason Branch, when they were together, they were spectacular. Ditto for Marcus Iron. Trent Locke, more recently, was good, and Matthew Ford was phenomenal. The two lesbians next door asked who that gorgeous guy was. :-) The only disappointment was Steve O'Donnell, it was kind of mechanical.

 

Very jealous over the Blake Harper / Jason Branch hire! I'd love to hire either one of them today.

[Phil_musc]

Decatur, you are too modest about your abilities - sure Havoc gets some credit, but don't sell yourself short. You got some skills there too, guy!

 

I agree with you too about Harper/Branch - that's the stuff of dreams, I'd say.

[down_to_business]

After a recent conversation with an escort I have been interested in off and on, I am pretty sure the escort is former Falcon porn star Eric Hanson. Just wondering if anyone has had any experience (positive or negative) with him. Thanks.

[jawjateck]

It was an exercise in trust, but only to a degree.

 

For one thing, I had been playing with Tom Isern for almost two hours when the other guy came over. For another, we had already determined he would choose the second escort, not me, and that he would let it be a surprise. I gave him a list of about 10 names/links, to show him my interests/range. He picked a guy not on the list, but that was cool -- and the biggest surprise of all.

 

Hey DG....Glad to hear the trip to NYC was a smoking hot time! Look forward to hearing about your exploits next time we do lunch.