Escorts Are The Meat - Clients Are Their Means

[robberbaron4u]

On occasion, the client is the "meat" course and the plate comes back "cleaned". . .

[MiamiLooker]

This topic, or something similar, comes up from time to time. There are always the very noble responses, but I don’t recall a poster ever stating they’ve recommended the escort profession as a career choice to their son or daughter or niece or nephew.

[jawjateck]

I respect escorts as professionals. They provide a high quality service, which is greatly appreciated by me. Some of the finest people I've ever met in my life have been escorts. I must admit that my long history of dealing with politicians, bureaucrats, accountants, financial advisors, lawyers, doctors, educators, engineers, entreprenuers, etc shows that many of these professionals do not have the character of many escorts I've met along this journey. I know fellow clients solely because of our mutual association in this forum. And yes, we frequently share information about escorts, and all of my friends have a high regard for escorts. I've never met a fellow client with the attitude described in this thread, but if I did, they certainly would never become or remain a friend of mine. Clients, who view themselves as superior humans to the escorts they hire, will likely view everyone according to their own standard of class. Woe be to those who know them, tolerate them, or worse, are employed by them. As for the nobility of the profession, that is a very subjective value judgment. There are numerous professions I regard as unseemly. For example, my conscience would never allow me to recommend someone to practice investment banking, it is an utterly corrupt profession, but that is my opinion only. And as for being an escort as a career choice, if I had known in my 20s, what I know now, I'd a had a helluva good time as an escort. I'm not sure I had the physical characteristics necessary to make a good living out of it, but that's irrelevant to this discussion.

[Guest countryboywny]

This topic, or something similar, comes up from time to time. There are always the very noble responses, but I don’t recall a poster ever stating they’ve recommended the escort profession as a career choice to their son or daughter or niece or nephew.

 

Interesting point. I have a 17 year old son who has come out to me. As his father, my natural instinct is to protect him so if he to decided to escort my first reaction would be to fear for his safety. But having spent some time with escorts myself, they fulfill a need that I have and I am appreciative that they are available. Tough call, but bottom line is I love my son and if it makes him happy and he's smart about it...

[bigvalboy]

The horror stories I have heard from clients who have been to see other escorts is shocking at times, dirty filthy places, other people milling around the apartment/house when they're there, drugs on show. These are the escorts who truly don't deserve any clients.

 

Yes Steve I will agree that it works both ways, perhaps some of the comments that have been said to me come from those clients that have had bad experiences. I live in LA, and Hollywood like many places in, say like NYC have there horror stories I am sure. Speaking for myself, it is difficult to explain, but I have always had a soft spot for escorts and on most all occasions side with the escort. Perhaps it is because I have been hiring for so long, and for the most part have met some incredible young men. Not always, I have had my share of disappointments, but for some reason, I usually just let the bad experience just go....

 

A few weeks ago on the spur of the moment I decide to hire a guy. I was with a friend and he recommended this escort that he knew. Suffice it to say that 20 min later, and 150 dollars poorer, half the amount he had asked for (he should have got nothing) I drove home. Despite the obvious rip-off, I should have been furious, but I just wasn't. On the drive home I thought and compared my life and the life of the guy who I had just left and was sitting alone in a rented motel room in Hollywood with my money. I have a pretty nice life and I just felt sorry for how his life was going in comparison. Some here would have reacted differently I am sure, but I always count my blessings.

 

My friend called and asked how I enjoyed him, when I told him the story, he was furious and vowed that he could get my money back...I simply said to him "Let it go" it is so unimportant in the scheme of life, just let it go I said....and until just this minute, that is the first time that I actually had remembered that bad experience. For me it was completely over.

[BostonPhil]

People that believe: "Escorts are just a low life prostitute peddling there body's on some street corner" shouldn't be coming to my site. That's not what the site is about.

 

:o

 

This topic, or something similar, comes up from time to time. There are always the very noble responses, but I don’t recall a poster ever stating they’ve recommended the escort profession as a career choice to their son or daughter or niece or nephew.

 

But would any of them be open to the idea if a family member came and told them that was their career choice? Would they be disgusted and dismissive or cautiously realistic and help them educate themselves about the business?

[seeker630]

This topic, or something similar, comes up from time to time. There are always the very noble responses, but I don’t recall a poster ever stating they’ve recommended the escort profession as a career choice to their son or daughter or niece or nephew.

 

I wouldn't recommend law or acting either.

[+ overeasy]

I have to admit to carrying around a very large prejudice. I, simply put, cannot abide stupidity (of various types) or arrogance (whether together or in tandem). I avoid people who exhibit these traits, in my business, personal, and hiring lives. I truly have no respect for those who cannot respect others...who are not stupid or arrogant....profession has no bearing....

[Decatur Guy]

Well, I'd like to echo what Jawjateck said so eloquently. ...

 

If I'm guilty of anything, it's probably going a tad bit in the opposite direction and glorifying them a bit. If my livelihood depended on being paid to deliver great sex, I'd starve to death. I might be too hard on myself at times for my physical inadequacies, but even in the most optimistic scenario, there's just no way anyone would pay me to have sex with them. I've always been envious of very good looking and very sexually magnetic people, especially if they are nice people in general.

 

Any negative feelings I once had about the whole escort/client dynamic were usually directed toward myself. ... It took me awhile to get over the negative feelings I had toward my own self-image -- basically the idea I had to pay someone to have sex with me wasn't a morale booster. I always thought the escort was definitely getting the better end of the deal -- $$$ and a piece of ass. LOL. In fact, I still think they are! So how can I look down on them?

 

These days, I enjoy it and it's one part of my sex life. And my sex life is one part of my life. The only real tension left in it for me is making budgeting decisions.

[SteveEscort]

Basically the idea I had to pay someone to Dhave sex with me wasn't a morale booster.

 

Now, I enjoy it and it's one part of my sex life.

 

As someone who charges for sex, I have also paid for it. In 2007 I was in London a lot for personal reasons and whilst staying at the Conrad Hotel in Chelsea I had a night off escorting and booked myself a big bald hairy 40 something bloke who was advertising in a gay scene magazine. I paid £300 and he stayed most of the night and it was my treat. I made the rules and he gave me fantastic sex. I never told him I was also "working". I booked him for 3 hours at 8pm and he stated until about 1am and had wine with me on the balcony overlooking the marina. It was a wonderful experience I've done only once but would never rule out again.

[bigvalboy]

I had a night off escorting and booked myself a big bald hairy 40 something bloke who was advertising in a gay scene magazine. I paid £300 and he stayed most of the night and it was my treat.

 

LOL...damn Steve, except for the age, that is me to a "T"...wish I had known that, I might have made a trip across the pond to meet you for that kind of an evening....(ok...you just made my day);)

[robberbaron4u]

My godson has been a rentboy for twenty years, more or less. In the beginning, I discouraged him in the thing, and, indeed, I was, if you will, the "venture capitalist" for any number of unsuccessful legitimate business undertakings for him. In the end, I came to terms with the reality that, given his behavorial and personality disorders, "escorting" was the only venue open to him to make money. In my honesty, I admit him to being a one-time B&G proposition as a rentboy, his "business plan" being to get all he can out of a "client" with as little effort on his part. For him, the client, evitably a mature man of some financial means given to alcohol abuse, is the "meat on the table", and, he regards the client with scorn. His family content themselves with the sham that he is a "personal trainer and nutrional consultant". He, himself, does not life people "knowing his business"; and, certainly, I do not introduce him to my friends as "my godson, the rentboy".

[instudiocity]

As with all things in life, we each get out of it by measure of what we are willing to put into it. Every relationship has a cost - I just prefer paying for my relationships by the hour than by the "house, car and every minute of my life."

 

At the same time, I don't want an hour-long relationship from someone I wouldn't choose to have a "house, car and every minute of my life" relationship.

 

At the same time, I don't want as an my hourly partner someone who is unable to enjoy a "house, car and every minute of my life" relationship with me.

 

Thankfully, my guys have enjoyed occasional trips to the wine country, or fine dining out without the meter running nor the horizontal mambo on the itinerary.

 

Bottom line, I don't want the sausage unattached to a kind heart and good mind.

[Irtwo]

"the attitude that escorts are just a low life prostitute peddling there body's on some street corner"

 

So I'm curious what the attitude is about those who actually do sell themselves on street corners. There seems to be a hierarchy among escorts.

[bigvalboy]

As with all things in life, we each get out of it by measure of what we are willing to put into it. Every relationship has a cost - I just prefer paying for my relationships by the hour than by the "house, car and every minute of my life."

 

At the same time, I don't want an hour-long relationship from someone I wouldn't choose to have a "house, car and every minute of my life" relationship.

 

At the same time, I don't want as an my hourly partner someone who is unable to enjoy a "house, car and every minute of my life" relationship with me.

 

Thankfully, my guys have enjoyed occasional trips to the wine country, or fine dining out without the meter running nor the horizontal mambo on the itinerary.

 

Excellent statement...

 

 

Bottom line, I don't want the sausage unattached to a kind heart and good mind.

 

 

AND the perfect summary...

[maxwellissmart]

My godson has been a rentboy for twenty years, more or less. In the beginning, I discouraged him in the thing, and, indeed, I was, if you will, the "venture capitalist" for any number of unsuccessful legitimate business undertakings for him. In the end, I came to terms with the reality that, given his behavorial and personality disorders, "escorting" was the only venue open to him to make money. In my honesty, I admit him to being a one-time B&G proposition as a rentboy, his "business plan" being to get all he can out of a "client" with as little effort on his part. For him, the client, evitably a mature man of some financial means given to alcohol abuse, is the "meat on the table", and, he regards the client with scorn. His family content themselves with the sham that he is a "personal trainer and nutrional consultant". He, himself, does not life people "knowing his business"; and, certainly, I do not introduce him to my friends as "my godson, the rentboy".

 

Perhaps he was exposed to too many commas early in life. Kinda like fetal alcohol syndrome—but completely different.

[MiamiLooker]

"the attitude that escorts are just a low life prostitute peddling there body's on some street corner"

 

So I'm curious what the attitude is about those who actually do sell themselves on street corners. There seems to be a hierarchy among escorts.

 

Why would anyone refer to another as a low life simply due to less fortunate circumstances?

[robberbaron4u]

And, given that his is a wasted life, not "funny ha ha" in the least; you should give some measure of thought to your scribbling before putting pen to paper.

[gallahadesquire]

My godson has been a rentboy for twenty years, more or less. In the beginning, I discouraged him in the thing, and, indeed, I was, if you will, the "venture capitalist" for any number of unsuccessful legitimate business undertakings for him. In the end, I came to terms with the reality that, given his behavorial and personality disorders, "escorting" was the only venue open to him to make money. In my honesty, I admit him to being a one-time B&G proposition as a rentboy, his "business plan" being to get all he can out of a "client" with as little effort on his part. For him, the client, evitably a mature man of some financial means given to alcohol abuse, is the "meat on the table", and, he regards the client with scorn. His family content themselves with the sham that he is a "personal trainer and nutrional consultant". He, himself, does not life people "knowing his business"; and, certainly, I do not introduce him to my friends as "my godson, the rentboy".

 

For those of you [us] old enough to remember Allen Sherman: My son, the Folksinger

 

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[bigvalboy]

his "business plan" being to get all he can out of a "client" with as little effort on his part. For him, the client, evitably a mature man of some financial means given to alcohol abuse, is the "meat on the table", and, he regards the client with scorn.

 

This I think is the most sad. That in fact he not only did not or was not capable of taking advantage of your "venture capitalist" undertakings, but that he did not make the best of the profession that he ultimately chose. My father who owned his own business and was financially successful, was a huge champion of education. When I was young and decided that receiving an advanced degree was not in the cards for me, I went home to announce my decision of dropping out of school to the family. I braced myself for a huge fight. After speaking for a few minutes, my father just looked at me and said, "I don't care what you decide to do in this world, you can just be a truck driver for all I care, but be the best damn truck driver there is" I just received a pm from an escort, and we briefly discussed the business of escorting. His attitude toward his clients and his profession is amazing...I think it is a good lesson for everyone.

 

It doesn't matter what you do, just do it the best way you know how.

[citylaw1]

I don't think that anywhere near a majority feel this way.

 

I have hired dozens of escorts and I feel this way about 1 so far. The majority of the boys that I've met were fun, smart, and a nice vacation for the evening.

[citylaw1]

Why would anyone refer to another as a low life simply due to less fortunate circumstances?

 

I bet that the successful escorts here and elsewhere are better off financially than the majority of the posters here.

[citylaw1]

I have always said that....LOL. I was talking to a top escort at lunch the other day and we were discussing LA Real Estate. He was asking my opinion about buying in a rather exclusive area of West Hollywood. I very foolishly said "Well that might be a little out of your reach"....The "Crow" I had for lunch was delicious.

 

I recently reviewed an escort that told me that he had 75k in his safety deposit box. I believed him.

[citylaw1]

I am not trying to one up you here City, but before I ordered the "Crow" the escort revealed to me that he had well in excess of double that amount in the bank...since Real Estate used to be my profession, he wanted my help, so I immediately knew that he was telling me the truth, because I told him that most buyers would want a letter of verification of funds, he said "That won't be a problem"....damn, well ok then!! LOL

 

I have no problem believing this.