With HIV infection on the rise...........

[sizzlingrice]

Has anyone contracted HIV through sex with an escort? I know this is a touchy subject but I would like to know if there were any cases of such. This would let the members of this forum know that we all should practice safe sex ALL THE TIME. This might also let the barebackers think twice in having unprotected sex.

 

I have had a BIG scare last year when one guy I was having sex with took off his condom and started fucking me. He is not an escort. This happened while he was fucking me doggie style so I couldn't see what he was doing as I was caught up in the moment. I asked him if he was poz and he said yes. Scared the fucking hell out of my mind. I had to take combivir for 30 days within 24 hours of that contact. Luckily, I didn't get infected.

 

I hire escorts pretty often - once a month and it's always safe sex except for one escort. He was poking his dick in and out of my ass but never going all the way in. I asked if he was neg and he said he was negative. He asked me if I was negative and I said I am negative. With that, he just went right in and started fucking me in different positions. It was very hot. Right now, I don't know what made me gave in to having sex with him with out a condom. I guess it was because he was hot and sexy as hell but I am currently paying for it. He did not cum inside me but precum was there. It's almost three months since that contact and I am very stressed out and have had sleepness nights over this slip. I am to get tested first week of October. I am keeping my fingers crossed.

[Doug69]

>Has anyone contracted HIV through sex with an escort? I know

>this is a touchy subject but I would like to know if there

>were any cases of such.

 

This is such an incredibly stupid question. Unless they only had sex with one person (the escort) for a huge amount of time before their positive test (a period of monogomy with the escort which must extend back to 6 months before the prior test), how could anyone who is HIV-positive possibly know whether they were infected by a particular escort as opposed to by someone else? Do you think that the antibodies have the person's name engraved on them indicating who the source of the infection was?

 

>I have had a BIG scare last year when one guy I was having sex

>with took off his condom and started fucking me. He is not an

>escort. This happened while he was fucking me doggie style so

>I couldn't see what he was doing as I was caught up in the

>moment.

 

If a guy who knows he is HIV-positive starts fucking you without a condom without your permission, consent or even knowledge, that would make him a menace and a criminal. But you say you were "caught up in the moment" - does that mean you knew he was doing this and didn't care or object? If so, responsibility for that incident lies solely with you.

 

>I hire escorts pretty often - once a month and it's always

>safe sex except for one escort. He was poking his dick in and

>out of my ass but never going all the way in. I asked if he

>was neg and he said he was negative. He asked me if I was

>negative and I said I am negative. With that, he just went

>right in and started fucking me in different positions.

 

If you hear yourself asking someone you're having sex with the question: "Are you positive or negative?," immediately follow that up by telling yourself: "that is an incredibly moronic question and I do not need to know the answer because I will not do anything differently in reliance on some horny strager's assurances that he is HIV-negative." Why even ask? How does the answer affect your behavior?

[Doug69]

>Has anyone contracted HIV through sex with an escort? I know

>this is a touchy subject but I would like to know if there

>were any cases of such.

 

This is such an incredibly stupid question. Unless they only had sex with one person (the escort) for a huge amount of time before their positive test (a period of monogomy with the escort which must extend back to 6 months before the prior test), how could anyone who is HIV-positive possibly know whether they were infected by a particular escort as opposed to by someone else? Do you think that the antibodies have the person's name engraved on them indicating who the source of the infection was?

 

>I have had a BIG scare last year when one guy I was having sex

>with took off his condom and started fucking me. He is not an

>escort. This happened while he was fucking me doggie style so

>I couldn't see what he was doing as I was caught up in the

>moment.

 

If a guy who knows he is HIV-positive starts fucking you without a condom without your permission, consent or even knowledge, that would make him a menace and a criminal. But you say you were "caught up in the moment" - does that mean you knew he was doing this and didn't care or object? If so, responsibility for that incident lies solely with you.

 

>I hire escorts pretty often - once a month and it's always

>safe sex except for one escort. He was poking his dick in and

>out of my ass but never going all the way in. I asked if he

>was neg and he said he was negative. He asked me if I was

>negative and I said I am negative. With that, he just went

>right in and started fucking me in different positions.

 

If you hear yourself asking someone you're having sex with the question: "Are you positive or negative?," immediately follow that up by telling yourself: "that is an incredibly moronic question and I do not need to know the answer because I will not do anything differently in reliance on some horny strager's assurances that he is HIV-negative." Why even ask? How does the answer affect your behavior?

[sizzlingrice]

All I wanted to know was if there was anyone out there who for sure knew that they were infected by an escort.

 

Thanks for your reply to my moronic question. I guess that makes you a moron too for answering it.

[sizzlingrice]

All I wanted to know was if there was anyone out there who for sure knew that they were infected by an escort.

 

Thanks for your reply to my moronic question. I guess that makes you a moron too for answering it.

[jackhammer91406]

sizzlingrice,

I am sorry that you got the response you did from doug. Not very helpful. I can't help you with your original question and I don't think it's a bad idea to ask for info and help in this forum. Just be prepared for the vocal and judgemental that will come out and pontificate on your actions . You may not get an answer posted on this thread, but I would hope that anyone who has the info you are asking for would message you privately. Be sure you have activated that feature in your profile. I gather from your post that you just need to have some idea about how to deal with all of this and maybe talking with someone will help. Just so you know, my experience at this message center is that with a few exceptions, there's a lot of nice guys, willing to listen and/ or share info. So hang in there and don't let assholes get to you. That was hard for me at first because I want to think the best of everyone, but after a few too many hits, you come to realize that some assholes just can't help it.

Good luck and let me know if there's anything I can do.

 

[jackhammer91406]

sizzlingrice,

I am sorry that you got the response you did from doug. Not very helpful. I can't help you with your original question and I don't think it's a bad idea to ask for info and help in this forum. Just be prepared for the vocal and judgemental that will come out and pontificate on your actions . You may not get an answer posted on this thread, but I would hope that anyone who has the info you are asking for would message you privately. Be sure you have activated that feature in your profile. I gather from your post that you just need to have some idea about how to deal with all of this and maybe talking with someone will help. Just so you know, my experience at this message center is that with a few exceptions, there's a lot of nice guys, willing to listen and/ or share info. So hang in there and don't let assholes get to you. That was hard for me at first because I want to think the best of everyone, but after a few too many hits, you come to realize that some assholes just can't help it.

Good luck and let me know if there's anything I can do.

 

[+ deej]

>This is such an incredibly stupid question.

 

And yours is an incredibly stupid, not to mention rude and insulting, answer.

 

>Unless they only

>had sex with one person (the escort) for a huge amount of time

>before their positive test (a period of monogomy with the

>escort which must extend back to 6 months before the prior

>test), how could anyone who is HIV-positive possibly know

>whether they were infected by a particular escort as opposed

>to by someone else?

 

Re-read the question that was asked. "Has anyone contracted HIV from an escort?" There was no stipulation that it be pinned on any single escort.

 

The typical portrait of clients painted by the clever wordsmiths around here is pathetic, old, and unable to otherwise get laid. It is ENTIRELY conceivable that a person in that category could go for an extended period having sex only with escorts. That extended period could EASILY cover the time span you cite. It's conceivable that some escort along the way gave the gift if that's the only way he's getting any.

 

That client could, with a fair amount of certainty, say that they contracted the virus from an escort, which would answer the question. I don't expect to see anyone answer it, but not because they can't know.

[+ deej]

>This is such an incredibly stupid question.

 

And yours is an incredibly stupid, not to mention rude and insulting, answer.

 

>Unless they only

>had sex with one person (the escort) for a huge amount of time

>before their positive test (a period of monogomy with the

>escort which must extend back to 6 months before the prior

>test), how could anyone who is HIV-positive possibly know

>whether they were infected by a particular escort as opposed

>to by someone else?

 

Re-read the question that was asked. "Has anyone contracted HIV from an escort?" There was no stipulation that it be pinned on any single escort.

 

The typical portrait of clients painted by the clever wordsmiths around here is pathetic, old, and unable to otherwise get laid. It is ENTIRELY conceivable that a person in that category could go for an extended period having sex only with escorts. That extended period could EASILY cover the time span you cite. It's conceivable that some escort along the way gave the gift if that's the only way he's getting any.

 

That client could, with a fair amount of certainty, say that they contracted the virus from an escort, which would answer the question. I don't expect to see anyone answer it, but not because they can't know.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Guess I'm going to be an asshole on this one... x(

 

This is a weird post to say the least. No........... um., skip it.

 

Hmmm... Ok, I will make one observation. Most of this post is about you and the story of your nonescort encounter. It has nothing to do with your question. MIght this post be a cathartic vehicle for your angst, which is understandable -- the agnst that is. Escorts don't carry any different HIV than nonescorts and it makes no difference where one gets it, escort, bf, or anonymous date. The lesson is the same in all cases.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Guess I'm going to be an asshole on this one... x(

 

This is a weird post to say the least. No........... um., skip it.

 

Hmmm... Ok, I will make one observation. Most of this post is about you and the story of your nonescort encounter. It has nothing to do with your question. MIght this post be a cathartic vehicle for your angst, which is understandable -- the agnst that is. Escorts don't carry any different HIV than nonescorts and it makes no difference where one gets it, escort, bf, or anonymous date. The lesson is the same in all cases.

[BuckyXTC]

deej:

 

Thanks for being a voice of reason in the face of Doug's incessant need to be arrogant and insulting to just about anyone who posts here. On rare occasions, Doug expresses a cogent thought, but most of the time, he just pisses into the wind.

[BuckyXTC]

deej:

 

Thanks for being a voice of reason in the face of Doug's incessant need to be arrogant and insulting to just about anyone who posts here. On rare occasions, Doug expresses a cogent thought, but most of the time, he just pisses into the wind.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Rereading your post I did under emphasize your escort encounter in the third paragraph that, no doubt, also weighs heavily on your mind. However, I still think my bottom line holds up. Hopefully, you will test clean and then you can put both of the episodes behind you.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Rereading your post I did under emphasize your escort encounter in the third paragraph that, no doubt, also weighs heavily on your mind. However, I still think my bottom line holds up. Hopefully, you will test clean and then you can put both of the episodes behind you.

[Trixie]

Sizzling Rice, to answer your question bluntly, I am sure that many clients have received the HIV virus from escorts or hustlers. But, they are not likely to be posting their sad stories here.

People around the world make mistakes every night, with escorts or with unpaid dates. The result is the same. You simply must not allow mistakes to happen, not matter who it is you are sleeping with. A good escort would not allow it either. Once you have been thoroughly tested, and feel at ease again, please remember that ONLY YOU can:

A) prevent forest fires, and

B) prevent HIV infection.

Do not rely on someone telling you that they are negative, or the fact that they "look" healthy, or that you think you might be falling in love with them, so you can let your guard down. Take the strength of stopping the virus into your own hands. Sex can be very, very safe, and satisfactory to boot. Use your imagination.

If you can only truly get off by having anal sex witout a condom, well then, you must get used to living in fear.

Trixie

[Flower]

>This is such an incredibly stupid question. Unless they only

>had sex with one person (the escort) for a huge amount of time

>before their positive test (a period of monogomy with the

>escort which must extend back to 6 months before the prior

>test), how could anyone who is HIV-positive possibly know

>whether they were infected by a particular escort as opposed

>to by someone else? Do you think that the antibodies have the

>person's name engraved on them indicating who the source of

>the infection was?

 

Actually not such a "moronic" question. btw, is that a new word for you? You seem to use it excessively in the last several posts, seeminly leaving behind your old favorite "despicable" for a while.

 

Anyway, usually, there is what they call an "acute' HIV infection with flu like symptoms often including very bad sore throat, lasting from a few days to a few weeks, starting 2-4 weeks after your infection with the HIV virus.

 

So if you have multiple sex partners within these time parameters, then maybe there is really no way to know other than comparing strains, which can be done, but not very practical.

 

I know several people with HIV and without exception, they feel they "know" who infected them. That may or may not be, but if you don't have unprotected sex very often, and come down with a miserable infection within a couple of weeks of one such episode, and you thereafter sero-convert, then you probably know who it was, or at least can narrow it down pretty good.

[Doug69]

>And yours is an incredibly stupid, not to mention rude and

>insulting, answer.

 

He comes on here breathlessly and hyseterically spewing his paranoia about HIV; blames everyone else besides himself for his predicament; and then, top it all off, spreads misinformation about HIV transmission. I think anyone who politely encourages him in what he is doing is doing a huge disservice. But for those of you who think that being "Nice" is the ultimate virtue, even to people who do such things, keep patting him on the head and telling yourself how wonderful you are.

 

>Re-read the question that was asked. "Has anyone contracted

>HIV from an escort?" There was no stipulation that it be

>pinned on any single escort.

 

Nonentheless, how would anyone know if it was an escort or not, unless the only people they're having sex with are escorts? Even he said that one of the guys who he let bareback him (when he . . . ahem . . . wasn't looking) was not an escort. So other than the tiny percentage of people who have sex only with escorts, how could anyone know - and why would it matter even if they could pin the HIV on an escort?

 

>The typical portrait of clients painted by the clever

>wordsmiths around here is pathetic, old, and unable to

>otherwise get laid. It is ENTIRELY conceivable that a person

>in that category could go for an extended period having sex

>only with escorts. That extended period could EASILY cover the

>time span you cite. It's conceivable that some escort along

>the way gave the gift if that's the only way he's getting

>any.

 

I guess this all depends on who you know. I don't know of anyone whose sex life is so barren that they have sex only with escorts, but I guess you do. It's an even nmore bizarre post than I thougth if he was addressing this hysteria to the tiny group of people whose sex life consists exclusively of hiring people.

 

And again - what difference does it make? It's just all an attempt to blame ESCORTS for his own conduct. He lets guys fuck him without condoms; freaks about because he has HIV; and then comes here screeching for someone else to say they got HIV from an escort, as though it's the fault of the escorts that he is going through what he's going through, whatever that is.

 

You may find that conduct worthy of polite encouragement, but I think it's a pretty reprehnsible attempt to blame escorts for what he does to himself.

[Doug69]

>Actually not such a "moronic" question.

>btw, is that a new word for you?

 

No, it's a word that usually leaps to mind whenever I read your green trite rantings.

 

>Anyway, usually, there is what they call an "acute' HIV

>infection with flu like symptoms often including very bad sore

>throat, lasting from a few days to a few weeks, starting 2-4

>weeks after your infection with the HIV virus.

 

This is beyond ludicrous. Someone goes and gets and HIV test - it's positive, which means that they seroconverted, at the earliest, 3 months before. They then trace back the last flu they had to the time before the 3-month window and figure out who they had sex with in the 2-4 weeks prior to their flu. Whoever fucked them in the ass without a condom in that window - assuming they can figure it out - is the culprit. Sounds like a nice witch hunt - I think using a Ouiji board would be more reliable.

 

>I know several people with HIV and without exception, they

>feel they "know" who infected them. That may or may not be,

>but if you don't have unprotected sex very often, and come

>down with a miserable infection within a couple of weeks of

>one such episode, and you thereafter sero-convert, then you

>probably know who it was, or at least can narrow it down

>pretty good.

 

As I assume even you know, one can have HIV transmitted to them in most sexual encounters, even ones where condoms are used. For those people who have more than a few sex partners a year, and even for such people, figuring out with any exactitude who the source of the infection was is nothing short of impossible.

 

And - even if one could do that - what is the point of his question: "Has anyone been infected by an escort?" Who the fuck cares? People should take exactly the same measures with anonymous sex hook-ups as they do with escorts, so - other than to blame escorts for his barebacking choices - why does it matter if anyone thinks, mythically, that they got HIV from an escort?

[Doug69]

>freaks about because he has HIV;

 

this should be "freaks out about whether he has HIV"

[jackhammer91406]

Polite honesty

 

Miss Trixie,

Thank you for telling this poster the truth in a way that doesn't require name calling or trying to make him feel worse. I am sure everyone feels that the responsibility rests with the OP, but there's a way to say things that doesn't require being such an asshole.

Good on you.

[+ deej]

>>freaks about because he has HIV;

>

>this should be "freaks out about whether he has HIV"

 

Don't worry, Doug. Your message comes through loud and clear even if you can't get the words out:

 

[blockquote]blah blah blah YOU FUCKING IDIOT blah blah blah YOU'RE TOO STUPID TO BE HERE blah blah blah

[/blockquote]

 

I'm glad they added the scroll wheel to the mouse. It makes you easier to ignore.

[Flower]

>And - even if one could do that - what is the point of his

>question: "Has anyone been infected by an escort?" Who the

>fuck cares? People should take exactly the same measures with

>anonymous sex hook-ups as they do with escorts, so - other

>than to blame escorts for his barebacking choices - why does

>it matter if anyone thinks, mythically, that they got HIV from

>an escort?

Well, that part I agree with. :+

[Guest fukamarine]

>sizzlingrice,

>I am sorry that you got the response you did from doug. Not

>very helpful.

 

No - not very helpful - but is anyone surprised? To expect anything else from that moron would also mean you believe in the tooth fairy!

 

fukamarine

[jackhammer91406]

FAM,

OH NO!! You mean there is NO tooth fairy????

 

:+