Adonis Nude Party

[+ goosh69]

I have no problem aggressively saying no to the aggressive dancers. Hence too many dancers per customer is great.

[cpq1bcle]

I'm still not clear what to expect at the nude party.

 

The idea of going to a place where I can see a bunch (at least 7 or 8) of gorgeous, muscular men standing, walking, or milling about completely nude (from the knees up) for several hours while I remain fully dressed, preferably sitting down, really appeals to me and I would travel (could go anywhere, possibly) to do that. To see naked twinks or to be hassled the whole time, no. (I might do a lap dance at some point. I'll let you know.)

 

I absolutely, positively will not pay money to look at less-than-nude male performers. If the admission to the club does not permit me to see at least one totally nude guy without additional charge, I'm not going there. Period.

[+ azdr0710]

If the admission to the club does not permit me to see at least one totally nude guy without additional charge, I'm not going there. Period.

 

 

I think you'll be very happy, then, at the monthly nude parties.....but practice up on your haggling and small-talk techniques or you may be utterly ignored.....they are there to make money, so at least keep that in mind

[+ azdr0710]

went to my first all-nude Adonis party last night with an also-willing forum member during a visit to the NY area....perfect host Tim is friendly, chatty, and honest....it's in a basement of sorts and, despite a post upthread, felt entirely clean and fine to me (it's currently held in a bondage club, so various pieces of equipment are hanging around) ....it usually runs from 7-2 and we arrived at 8:35 to a mostly empty-of-clients place (welcome to the city that never sleeps), but several dancers were already there and more arrived over the next hour or so.....soft drinks only

 

there is a decent amount of seating and the "models" (?) (they aren't really dancers here) mill around, approach customers, check their smartphones, and keep their dicks fluffed up at times....more customers arrived as the evening wore on....music not loud at all....all very casual with lots of models - I felt sorry for some of the guys because they pay to work here and need to make some money....a few twinky guys, several in-shape straight-ish dudes, a few Latinos, a Black or three - all but one or two spoke English....lots of guys all very eager for a private lapdance....

 

two lapdance areas - one on a mezzanine of sorts and the other around a corner....no curtains or privacy, but the action seemed somewhat wide open....no actual sex, of course, but discreet dancers and clients can get away with a bit, it appears....there was some bouncer in the mezzanine during my lapdances who was mostly interested in his phone, but one of my dancers said he still wanted to be careful and always face himself away from that bouncer....be discreet when negotiating for a lapdance, but the rules are somewhat relaxed here because of no liquor....you can discuss what you'd like to do before the private....the standard rate is $20/song, but I politely asked for 15 minutes for $60 with a couple dudes (counting songs is distracting!) and two guys agreed....a third dude flatly said, "no deals!", but we came to an agreement.....tip a bit....

 

$50 admission and you can just sit with your $5 soft drink and check out the nude dudes walking by, but if they catch you checking out their goods, be prepared to fend off their overtures....

 

all very friendly....if you have questions about protocol, anybody can help you.....glad I went....control your spending if you need to!....

[whipped guy]

went to my first all-nude Adonis party last night with an also-willing forum member during a visit to the NY area....perfect host Tim is friendly, chatty, and honest....it's in a basement of sorts and, despite a post upthread, felt entirely clean and fine to me (it's currently held in a bondage club, so various pieces of equipment are hanging around) ....it usually runs from 7-2 and we arrived at 8:35 to a mostly empty-of-clients place (welcome to the city that never sleeps), but several dancers were already there and more arrived over the next hour or so.....soft drinks only

 

there is a decent amount of seating and the "models" (?) (they aren't really dancers here) mill around, approach customers, check their smartphones, and keep their dicks fluffed up at times....more customers arrived as the evening wore on....music not loud at all....all very casual with lots of models - I felt sorry for some of the guys because they pay to work here and need to make some money....a few twinky guys, several in-shape straight-ish dudes, a few Latinos, a Black or three - all but one or two spoke English....lots of guys all very eager for a private lapdance....

 

two lapdance areas - one on a mezzanine of sorts and the other around a corner....no curtains or privacy, but the action seemed somewhat wide open....no actual sex, of course, but discreet dancers and clients can get away with a bit, it appears....there was some bouncer in the mezzanine during my lapdances who was mostly interested in his phone, but one of my dancers said he still wanted to be careful and always face himself away from that bouncer....be discreet when negotiating for a lapdance, but the rules are somewhat relaxed here because of no liquor....you can discuss what you'd like to do before the private....the standard rate is $20/song, but I politely asked for 15 minutes for $60 with a couple dudes (counting songs is distracting!) and two guys agreed....a third dude flatly said, "no deals!", but we came to an agreement.....tip a bit....

 

$50 admission and you can just sit with your $5 soft drink and check out the nude dudes walking by, but if they catch you checking out their goods, be prepared to fend off their overtures....

 

all very friendly....if you have questions about protocol, anybody can help you.....glad I went....control your spending if you need to!....

azdr0710!

 

It's good to get an indication of what transpires there from a poster in whom I trust as I was considering attending if I found myself in NYC on an evening when a party was taking place. I am quite familiar with Paddles (the venue where the parties occur) as that's where the New York Bondage Club meets on Sunday evenings.

 

I was wondering what the lighting situation is during the parties because for the NYBC the lighting is so dim in some of the more recessed areas, and that includes the upper loft area, that it is difficult to navigate or see what is transpiring. Of course, the lighting is dim because much more than Bondage or S&M occurs in those areas. I won't say exactly what, but let's just say that the sky can be the limit. Also, they do provide lube, condoms, clothespins, and rope for those who need them for what ever reason. . Personally, I would prefer to see what is occurring as from an strictly S&M point of view it can be a bit dangerous when someone is wielding a flogger in one of the dark areas as often a passerby or two gets inadvertently overly close to the action. Of course, I am a bit visually challenged and even with my glasses I have difficulty in darkened areas.

 

One more point, the 50 banana entrance fee seems a bit steep. The NYBC charges 25 for non members and 20 for members and their guests. Of course you are getting better eye candy and potential hot playmates at the Nude Parties. However, for real action I guess you will need to bring even more cash. In contrast, at the NYBC it is mostly the common folk (many of whom are over the hill) looking for some playtime and the beautiful people (the younger crowd) usually congregate amongst themselves. Though on rare occasions a youngin is in need of a daddy type...

 

One thing regarding the cleanliness of the place, with all the cum that's on the floor by the end of the evening I would hate to see what it looks like with the lights up. I would guess that's one other reason why the lighting is so dim for the NYBC. If you are touchy about such things you need to bring your own Lysol®, Purell®, or what ever!

[+ goosh69]

There is no jerking off that I've seen. Basically, you negotiate if the guy wants to meet you later. No actual sex is occurring. Tim won't allow it.

[whipped guy]

There is no jerking off that I've seen. Basically, you negotiate if the guy wants to meet you later. No actual sex is occurring. Tim won't allow it.

That's the way it was at the NYBC years ago, except that jerking off was allowed and indeed encouraged and especially on the main stage. There would be a monitor surveying the action and stopping anything that crossed the line beyond that. The same guys run the place but now the line is more than crossed. In a sense it's not a good thing, because the guys such as myself who are primarily interested in BDSM are in the minority and at times have difficulty finding like minded individuals.

[+ Truereview]

That's the way it was at the NYBC years ago, except that jerking off was allowed and indeed encouraged and especially on the main stage. There would be a monitor surveying the action and stopping anything that crossed the line beyond that. The same guys run the place but now the line is more than crossed. In a sense it's not a good thing, because the guys such as myself who are primarily interested in BDSM are in the minority and at times have difficulty finding like minded individuals.

 

Sigh...I miss my old New York....where has all the edginess & fun gone?

[AdamSmith]

That's the way it was at the NYBC years ago, except that jerking off was allowed and indeed encouraged and especially on the main stage. There would be a monitor surveying the action and stopping anything that crossed the line beyond that. The same guys run the place but now the line is more than crossed. In a sense it's not a good thing, because the guys such as myself who are primarily interested in BDSM are in the minority and at times have difficulty finding like minded individuals.

 

Such problems!

[whipped guy]

Such problems!

Well, just this past week a friend and I were reminiscing about the "Good old days at the NYBC" and how it just not quite the same! Not that is as bad thing, but the place definitely attracts a different crowd and since it is difficult enough to find BDSM players the somewhat change in focus has hindered things for the true S&M aficionado.

[+ purplekow]

Well, just this past week a friend and I were reminiscing about the "Good old days at the NYBC" and how it just not quite the same! Not that is as bad thing, but the place definitely attracts a different crowd and since it is difficult enough to find BDSM players the somewhat change in focus has hindered things for the true S&M aficionado.

There is no jerking off that I've seen. Basically, you negotiate if the guy wants to meet you later. No actual sex is occurring. Tim won't allow it.

Well if you mean Bill Clinton's definition of sex, then no sex happened, as far as I know. However, as the second member of the Daddy's brigade, I found myself on the giving and receiving end of what I assume was scintillating conversations but which was unintelligible as the model's mouth and then mine were full. I did later see Tim insuring that this kind of communication did not happen, but my wallet was not alone in being sucked dry but it might have been that it was a matter of not getting caught.

And azdr0710 did not mention his dry cleaning bill related to a certain armored dancer's big gun firing, as tank's are apt to do, leaving a bit of mess behind.

This was also my first time at such a club and I found myself feeling perfectly at home but just a bit sleazy. Perhaps I needed just a bit more Kowbell.

[+ azdr0710]

as suggested by goosh above, did want to mention that many of the guys will very definitely meet with you privately in an escort-style setting....of the three dudes I had lapdances with, all were up for a private meet, but with very different levels of interaction....check on limits beforehand!.....

 

also, the lighting seemed adequate, whipped guy, and not as dark as the bondage club meetings appear to be, according to your description of that...some shadows and dark spots depending on which way you're facing and whatnot.....

 

and re: the lapdance limits....while we were talking to Tim at one point, he suddenly had to leave and run over to a lapdance in progress that appeared to be including oral....don't know if it really was that, but Tim was on the ball, so to speak, in monitoring the goings-on.....

 

go to theadonislounge.com and click on NY, LA, or both....for me, a sign-up page pops up after several seconds in the NY or LA section for emails on upcoming shows

[whipped guy]

 

also, the lighting seemed adequate, whipped guy, and not as dark as the bondage club meetings appear to be, according to your description of that...some shadows and dark spots depending on which way you're facing and whatnot.....

 

 

go to theadonislounge.com and click on NY, LA, or both....for me, a sign-up page pops up after several seconds in the NY or LA section for emails on upcoming shows

 

azdr0710.... Thanks! I suspected that about the lighting. When the rules changed at the NYBC the lighting changed as well!

 

Also a good friend always forwards me the Adonis emails of upcoming shows and the guys always seem quite interesting to say the least!

[Irtwo]

I politely asked for 15 minutes for $60 with a couple dudes (counting songs is distracting!) and two guys agreed...

 

You got a great deal, considering that if you went per song you'd only get about half that time for $60. I'm going to have to try that sometime. But one quirk, who keeps track of the time?

[samandtham]

You got a great deal, considering that if you went per song you'd only get about half that time for $60. I'm going to have to try that sometime. But one quirk, who keeps track of the time?

 

I've done this before as well, but not at Adonis. Once the guy agrees on the time, out come my iPhone and I just set the stopwatch to beep once fifteen minutes are done.

 

If I have a regular at a specific club (say, Stock Bar in Montreal), I usually talk to them about a fixed amount for a fixed length of time before even going to the lap dance area. I don't really like to watch the time while I'm enjoying someone.

[BC_Runner]

Went to Adonis Lounge last night. Pretty good selection of guys. I had several lap dances that allowed for mutual touch and kissing. All the guys were pretty nice and down to earth (or at least pretended to be). Gay or straight...I always appreciate it when a dancer gets arect during a dance. There was one guy who I had my eyes on all night. I was able to do a little more with him and we exchanged numbers. Only a couple of negatives...One guy did call me an asshole for not giving him a tip when he came up to me and showed me his cock. I didn't ask to see it There was also a point when there were more dancers than patrons, which was sort of uncomfortable for me because it just means that you have to turn down the same 10+ guys over and over again. Overall, I had a pretty good time.

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

Went to Adonis Lounge last night. Pretty good selection of guys. I had several lap dances that allowed for mutual touch and kissing. All the guys were pretty nice and down to earth (or at least pretended to be). Gay or straight...I always appreciate it when a dancer gets arect during a dance. There was one guy who I had my eyes on all night. I was able to do a little more with him and we exchanged numbers. Only a couple of negatives...One guy did call me an asshole for not giving him a tip when he came up to me and showed me his cock. I didn't ask to see it There was also a point when there were more dancers than patrons, which was sort of uncomfortable for me because it just means that you have to turn down the same 10+ guys over and over again. Overall, I had a pretty good time.

 

Can you provide us the names of the winners and losers? At least the guys you liked and were fun in the back, as well as the guy who called you an asshole for not tipping him.

[diehard_002]

yes please do list names, if not on the forum, via private email.

i am very curious about who let u kiss. are u a hot guy yourself since a lot

of mileage depends on how attractive the dancer finds you. the str8 g4pay boys dont kiss typically.

[mattr]

Interested in names myself.... always looking for good recommendations. I only had one guy seriously kiss me... but he has since retired from dancing and moved on to bigger and better things.

[BC_Runner]

Unfortunately I don't remember any of the names except Nicholas, the Canadian. Super friendly guy. The kisses from some of the other dancers were a nice surprise because I wasn't expecting it nor did I ask. Really turned me on though.

[MarkJD]

Anyone planning to HEAD to the all nude pop UP tonight?

[+ purplekow]

Anyone planning to HEAD to the all nude pop UP tonight?

Where is the party?

Stonewall?

[MarkJD]

Hope to see you there, mattr! I like the new space - much better than Paddles in my opinion. I will probably bring some vodka tonight - looking forward to Mr. Biggs!

[+ sniper]

Probably should check with Tim before posting that address here. Think he lists it only in the email for a reason.

[DonaldTramp]

Probably should check with Tim before posting that address here. Think he lists it only in the email for a reason.

I guess it's no so private anymore!