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I think this is something that i'm very capable of doing, I'm not sure if I could make what a lot of you guys are making because I don't really have looks. 140 5'9" White, My body isn't that bad but im super confident and a good actor, good at sex, things like that. Plus, making people happy is something I would enjoy doing, providing companionship and having fun sounds like a really rewarding job.

 

Anyways, I have no Idea where to start, I have gotten offers but for the life of me don't know how to proceed professionally. I'd like to be an independent, first most. So like Backpage, craigslist, Rentmen?

 

What is a reasonable rate? I had said 200$/hr to a couple of people to get an idea of what I am capable of getting and that seemed pretty reasonable to them. Even with a 4 hour minimum for new clients. Am I asking for too many hours?

 

How often do clients act unfriendly or 'weird?'

How can I stay safe and how do I screen someone accurately and afford-ably?

 

What amount of protection is absolutely required for 'this' much sex?

Should I make them wear a condom if I give them head? Should I wear a condom if they give me head? Personal Preference? Things like that..?

 

Whats it like to book someone the same day, and it normal?

How do I get over the anxiety that comes with the first appointment?

Can I send nudes prior to the appointment, or should I have that listed in my advertisement?

 

Avoiding the law is something I consider very important as I may pursue LE down the line, how do I assure my clients that im going to have sex with them, without saying im going to have sex for money; legally? I recognize that not all jobs are sexual, but I do hear that it's expected.

 

I'm just really so new to this I dont even know where to start. I have had a couple opportunities but really just haven't gone out of my way yet.

 

What is something that I should absolutely avoid, that a lot of people miss or do when they first start escorting?

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As a client, about rates, if you are in the Midwest and you "don't have the looks" and have merely an OK body you may want to start at $150. Then if you find that you are getting the amount of clients you want you can raise rate. For a new escort I think any minimum more than two hours is probably unrealistic.

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As a client, about rates, if you are in the Midwest and you "don't have the looks" and have merely an OK body you may want to start at $150. Then if you find that you are getting the amount of clients you want you can raise rate. For a new escort I think any minimum more than two hours is probably unrealistic.

Great, thanks for the advice! I thought it was unreasonable.

Escorting.

Why is that?

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Hi Jamie,

 

Unfortunately I personally can't give you any advise on the subject. One of the most harshly punished crimes related to escorting is Instigation To Prostitution.

 

All I can recommend is that you sit down and think very hard about all the possible ramifications that becoming an escort could have in your life. I am thinking legally, emotionally, socially, romantically, physically. Escorting is a bit like Herpes; once you got it, you got it. It is not going away. If you are not emotionally prepared for the possible consequences you might be better off not trying it out.

 

Educate yourself thoroughly. There are a myriad places where you can receive accurate, non-biased information, specially when it comes to your health. Coming here you will only receive a ton of personal opinions, and opinions are just not reliable.

 

Judging by the tone and quality of your questions it occurs to me you might be too young and not entirely ready to engage in an activity that aside from being illegal in many countries can be tremendously impactful on your psyche. If you really, really, really want to... sit on this desire longer. Educate yourself. Read a lot about the subject... then wait some more.

 

Only a very mature and clear headed person can navigate this kind of work without suffering damage from it. I am not saying you are not mature, but I am saying you are clearly not informed enough to do it safely.

 

I am in my late thirties and still going at it and being more successful than I was when I was younger. There is no rush. It's not that if you don't become an escort today you will miss that boat. Actually maturity lately has become a huge bonus in escorts.

 

Don't jump into it.

 

Look for other income avenues and prepare yourself. Take care of yourself. Go to the gym, work on your self-esteem, come to the realization that you are special, beautiful, desirable and have a lot to bring to the table. It is possible that once you get there you may even realize that you have zero interest in escorting any longer.

 

Do not jump into it.

 

Sending you lots of hugs and good wishes!

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Hi Jamie,

 

Unfortunately I personally can't give you any advise on the subject. One of the most harshly punished crimes related to escorting is Instigation To Prostitution.

 

All I can recommend is that you sit down and think very hard about all the possible ramifications that becoming an escort could have in your life. I am thinking legally, emotionally, socially, romantically, physically. Escorting is a bit like Herpes; once you got it, you got it. It is not going away. If you are not emotionally prepared for the possible consequences you might be better off not trying it out.

 

Educate yourself thoroughly. There are a myriad places where you can receive accurate, non-biased information, specially when it comes to your health. Coming here you will only receive a ton of personal opinions, and opinions are just not reliable.

 

Judging by the tone and quality of your questions it occurs to me you might be too young and not entirely ready to engage in an activity that aside from being illegal in many countries can be tremendously impactful on your psyche. If you really, really, really want to... sit on this desire longer. Educate yourself. Read a lot about the subject... then wait some more.

 

Only a very mature and clear headed person can navigate this kind of work without suffering damage from it. I am not saying you are not mature, but I am saying you are clearly not informed enough to do it safely.

 

I am in my late thirties and still going at it and being more successful than I was when I was younger. There is no rush. It's not that if you don't become an escort today you will miss that boat. Actually maturity lately has become a huge bonus in escorts.

 

Don't jump into it.

 

Look for other income avenues and prepare yourself. Take care of yourself. Go to the gym, work on your self-esteem, come to the realization that you are special, beautiful, desirable and have a lot to bring to the table. It is possible that once you get there you may even realize that you have zero interest in escorting any longer.

 

Do not jump into it.

 

Sending you lots of hugs and good wishes!

 

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And, please for the love of Pete, take a breathe!

 

I do think @Juan Vancouver has many good points and I agree you may not be ready at this time. I am happy to talk more with you if it helps you process your questions and concerns, and see if it is something you really want to do.

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Hi Jamie,

Judging by the tone and quality of your questions it occurs to me you might be too young and not entirely ready to engage in an activity that aside from being illegal in many countries can be tremendously impactful on your psyche. If you really, really, really want to... sit on this desire longer. Educate yourself. Read a lot about the subject... then wait some more.

 

Only a very mature and clear headed person can navigate this kind of work without suffering damage from it. I am not saying you are not mature, but I am saying you are clearly not informed enough to do it safely.

 

I am in my late thirties and still going at it and being more successful than I was when I was younger. There is no rush. It's not that if you don't become an escort today you will miss that boat. Actually maturity lately has become a huge bonus in escorts.

 

Don't jump into it.

 

Look for other income avenues and prepare yourself. Take care of yourself. Go to the gym, work on your self-esteem, come to the realization that you are special, beautiful, desirable and have a lot to bring to the table. It is possible that once you get there you may even realize that you have zero interest in escorting any longer.

 

Do not jump into it.

 

Sending you lots of hugs and good wishes!

Yeah I'm 21 which certainly is young; i'd worry that I would be damaged but I cant say for certain, one of the reasons why is like you stated, I'm not informed enough. I actually am very confident with myself and in person, I know I mentioned I wasn't that good looking but I happy with how I look which is a little above average. I think it would be unfair to myself if I said, I have huge dick, great hair, chiseled jaw, ripped abs and the tightest ass in the county. :rolleyes: im drooling

 

But yeah a lot of you guys have been in the business for what appears to be a long time, I really hope to learn from all of you and this is something i'd like to think about more. I certainly don't find it appealing to work with someone unsightly, however I am attracted to companionship, dates, and a lot of the platonic's that come with escorting. Sex of course isn't an issue for me, it's just the ramifications that come with it, and the effects it has on my psyche, which i'm willing to endure but from what it seems, this line of work takes it's toll. It's like losing my virginity again, the anxiety of the first encounter in which both parties recognize sex as an underlining dialogue; it's provocative to me, learning an experience for the first time. I certainly would like to think about it more, I will also read up on the links provided by @BaronArtz and @devonhunter

 

Would any of your recommend paying for an escort, to get a first hand feel for what it is they do and how they operate? Ask questions in person?

 

Thanks boys! :p

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IRT to hiring and escort....

 

Keep in mind you are actually paying for their time - not a specific activity. What you do during that time is between the two of you. Look though the reviews here for experienced professionals located near you. Discuss with that professional what your goals are during your time together.

 

If you give an idea here of your location you might get some recommendations from the forum members.

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Yeah I'm 21 which certainly is young; i'd worry that I would be damaged but I cant say for certain, one of the reasons why is like you stated, I'm not informed enough. I actually am very confident with myself and in person, I know I mentioned I wasn't that good looking but I happy with how I look which is a little above average. I think it would be unfair to myself if I said, I have huge dick, great hair, chiseled jaw, ripped abs and the tightest ass in the county. :rolleyes: im drooling

 

But yeah a lot of you guys have been in the business for what appears to be a long time, I really hope to learn from all of you and this is something i'd like to think about more. I certainly don't find it appealing to work with someone unsightly, however I am attracted to companionship, dates, and a lot of the platonic's that come with escorting. Sex of course isn't an issue for me, it's just the ramifications that come with it, and the effects it has on my psyche, which i'm willing to endure but from what it seems, this line of work takes it's toll. It's like losing my virginity again, the anxiety of the first encounter in which both parties recognize sex as an underlining dialogue; it's provocative to me, learning an experience for the first time. I certainly would like to think about it more, I will also read up on the links provided by @BaronArtz and @devonhunter

 

Would any of your recommend paying for an escort, to get a first hand feel for what it is they do and how they operate? Ask questions in person?

 

Thanks boys! :p

 

You are very young and, judging from your post, I think you definitely are NOT ready to escort. Definitely not.

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