Have you ever bought your client flowers?

[Jamie]

One of my clients had made a joke about ordering me from "the young man store" and wished I had shown up in a tux with some flowers. It got me thinking, that would be a sweet way to show my appreciation for their business. In many other small businesses they send 'thank you cards' and reminders every six months, i'm having trouble determining the level of professionalism necessary of saying "thank you" without being too intimate or invasive. A thank you card, sounds.... Bad. Maybe if it was a funny one, that was relative to our relationship...

 

For those who aren't discreet, would it be a bit 'excessive?' or too 'intimate?' to send an order of flowers to their home, or even show up with a bouquet in our next appointment? I just want a sincere way of saying, thank you; I appreciate your business and value our time togethor.

 

 

I certainly would be flattered if a client had bought me flowers, i'd parade them in my home and probably add it on my instagram to be honest.

[+ Eric Hassan]

One of my clients had made a joke about ordering me from "the young man store" and wished I had shown up in a tux with some flowers. It got me thinking, that would be a sweet way to show my appreciation for their business. In many other small businesses they send 'thank you cards' and reminders every six months, i'm having trouble determining the level of professionalism necessary of saying "thank you" without being too intimate or invasive. A thank you card, sounds.... Bad. Maybe if it was a funny one, that was relative to our relationship...

 

For those who aren't discreet, would it be a bit 'excessive?' or too 'intimate?' to send an order of flowers to their home, or even show up with a bouquet in our next appointment? I just want a sincere way of saying, thank you; I appreciate your business and value our time togethor.

 

 

I certainly would be flattered if a client had bought me flowers, i'd parade them in my home and probably add it on my instagram to be honest.

 

I show my appreciation and thanks by taking a moment before we part ways to look my client in the eye, thank them for their time, and acknowledge something I like about them or the time we had together. Then I usually follow up with a text message or email to thank them again. If we matched well and the energy seems to be that we might get together again (or if they've specifically said they'd like to spend more time with me), I make sure to remind them that I am always working and happy to meet with them again. I would not hesitate to bring a gift if I felt moved to do so, but I don't do it because I "should" and I probably would NOT send gifts or flowers to their house.

[Rudynate]

From a client's point of view, I think I would find it excessive - trying too hard. What I like is a text or email from the escort, on the same day, thanking me, telling me how they enjoyed it and saying they would welcome another meeting and maybe one or two short flirty texts in the days afterward.

[jjkrkwood]

I would be suspicious if that were the case. There are "nice gestures", and then there is "ass kissing"....

[+ deej]

On my 40th birthday I treated myself to a porn star, and mentioned to him in advance he was a birthday present to me. After we'd done our deed and were cuddling he hopped out of bed and retrieved Hostess cupcakes with candles. A truly sweet gesture, not over done, but resourceful for a guy on the road. Another sent me a cute hand-embellished valentine's card on Valentine's Day every year, long after he'd stopped advertising. Sweet.

 

I've had escorts go overboard, texting every 3 days. It smacks a little (OK a lot) of desperation.

 

I don't think there's a one size fits all answer here. All escorts are different, all clients are different. Use your best judgement in all situations.

[+ José Soplanucas]

From this client perspective, dont waste your money and time in flowers for me. Wrap yourself in gift paper with a huge ribbon in your ass. THAT would be a nice gesture

[jjkrkwood]

From this client perspective, dont waste your money and time in flowers for me. Wrap yourself in gift paper with a huge ribbon in your ass. THAT would be a nice gesture

 

 

latbear, we are kinda on the same page, but this is what would work for ME......I'm a simple girl.

 

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[jjkrkwood]

But if you really wanna butter me up, this is how you do it.....

 

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[+ glennnn]

I appreciate the follow up emails and/texts. Anything sent to my home would be compromising. The main thing, of course, is how we please each other during love making.

[bigvalboy]

I show my appreciation and thanks by taking a moment before we part ways to look my client in the eye, thank them for their time, and acknowledge something I like about them or the time we had together. Then I usually follow up with a text message or email to thank them again.

 

...This is on the mark!

 

Eye contact that is sincere, and a genuine thank you, is all I need.

[alexslaveboy]

...This is on the mark!

 

Eye contact that is sincere, and a genuine thank you, is all I need.

 

Yes @bigvalboy eye contact is genuine and cannot be faked

I see a fantastic guy that always looks me in the eyes and tells me he's very thankful that I enjoy his "services" and that it's mutual.

[TruHart1]

As a client I have two very special regular escorts who surprise me with gifts sometimes. Both of them have become very good friends. I always hire one of them around Valentine's Day now because one of our first appointments was on VD and he bought me roses AND candy! That was my most romantic Valentine's Day ever. He's never failed since then to make every Valentine's Day special for me, in the bedroom and out! The other will just give me a surprise gift now and then, nothing big but always something thoughtful. I don't ever expect this sort of treatment when I hire but if an escort is extra thoughtful, it really can make me pretty happy!

 

TruHart1

[+ Dane Scott]

I have many regular clients that I have seen over my 15 years. It has been my pleasure to treat them to a meal. Whether that be a modest breakfast or an evening dinner. It is my way of saying Thank you for these amazing years in my life.

[+ Truereview]

Wow...@Jamie , there is hardly anything left to say on this except to summarize.

• KEEP IT SIMPLE. Consider a heartfelt, verbal expression as (as @Eric Hassan suggested)
  
• Wait until the client has proven worthy of trusting and material acts of gratitude (cupcakes, flowers, serenades, meals, poems) - don't send/share anything material until you know it would be OK with the client for you to do so.
  
• Be careful of the slant in this forum. You are probably hearing from the best of clients and escorts, but you know for a fact, the world is not overflowing with such quality. Some clients will never understand gratitude. More reason to keep it simple
  
• To me, we've lost the art of expressing our feelings for each other in-person. I believe that today people hide behind artifacts, like texting their feelings - including their thanks. Convenience has trumped meaningfulness.
  
• I used to close on my clients (the good ones) by saying this: Mr. client, I really value our time together, and I'd be honored to see you again. Sounds too official & corny, right? Well, it worked for me bc I believed it and so did they. Words are powerful instruments when delivered with conviction and care. For me, that sentence worked bc my brand was about the honor of the business, the value I provided, the repeat business I aimed for, the material and emotional exchange, and the mutual respect.
  
• Now, it seems the only thing remaining - and probably the most important - instead of flowers, what will say or do?
  

[jjkrkwood]

Wow...@Jamie , there is hardly anything left to say on this except to summarize.

• KEEP IT SIMPLE. Consider a heartfelt, verbal expression as (as @Eric Hassan suggested)
  
• Wait until the client has proven worthy of trusting and material acts of gratitude (cupcakes, flowers, serenades, meals, poems) - don't send/share anything material until you know it would be OK with the client for you to do so.
  
• Be careful of the slant in this forum. You are probably hearing from the best of clients and escorts, but you know for a fact, the world is not overflowing with such quality. Some clients will never understand gratitude. More reason to keep it simple
  
• To me, we've lost the art of expressing our feelings for each other in-person. I believe that today people hide behind artifacts, like texting their feelings - including their thanks. Convenience has trumped meaningfulness.
  
• I used to close on my clients (the good ones) by saying this: Mr. client, I really value our time together, and I'd be honored to see you again. Sounds too official & corny, right? Well, it worked for me bc I believed it and so did they. Words are powerful instruments when delivered with conviction and care. For me, that sentence worked bc my brand was about the honor of the business, the value I provided, the repeat business I aimed for, the material and emotional exchange, and the mutual respect.
  
• Now, it seems the only thing remaining - and probably the most important - instead of flowers, what will say or do?
  

 

How Dare you Trudy.... As long as I still have 2 hands, I will never lose the art of expressing MY feelings...

 

[+ Truereview]

How Dare you Trudy.... As long as I still have 2 hands, I will never lose the art of expressing MY feelings...

 

Lol...Posts are also an artifact. Cum over and try your New Yorker attitude on me face to face, Marge.

[jjkrkwood]

Lol...Posts are also an artifact. Cum over and try your New Yorker attitude on me face to face, Marge.

 

I though we established I wasn't coming cause you serve Cerviche ?

 

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[+ nycman]

Unless you've got a very specific kink for getting fucked on a bed of roses....leave the flowers at home.

[mattr]

From a client's point of view, I think I would find it excessive - trying too hard. What I like is a text or email from the escort, on the same day, thanking me, telling me how they enjoyed it and saying they would welcome another meeting and maybe one or two short flirty texts in the days afterward.

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[beachboy]

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[+ Keith30309]

From a client's point of view, I think I would find it excessive - trying too hard. What I like is a text or email from the escort, on the same day, thanking me, telling me how they enjoyed it and saying they would welcome another meeting and maybe one or two short flirty texts in the days afterward.

 

Yep... I got a text from the last guy I saw and he was very sweet - made me feel all warm and mushy inside. It's a nice remembrance that will make me remember him more vividly. Flirty is good.

[gezellig4u]

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[WolfRamNHard]

It seems that I'm the exception here, because I happen to love flowers (except daisies). However, I usually just end up buying them myself, because for some reason it seems that guys don't like to get flowers for each other, except on TV. But if a hot guy (escort or otherwise) were to bring me flowers, my heart would probably just melt away or something. Especially if they are peonies or dahlias. And roses of course.

[BeHappy]

I always think flowers are a nice touch on the coffee table.

A very nice card with the payment enclosed is always appreciated by my visiting friend!

[Epigonos]

Over the years a number of my regulars have taken me out to dinner - nice. Over the years I have had a number of escorts, in my home, for dinner. Some have arrived with a bottle of wine in hand - nice.