Do you have trouble with booking an Escort too early?

[marylander1940]

When I travel, I often try to book an escort a week or so in advance.

 

I have been having problems with escorts who say "yes" to an appointment a week or 5 days in advance - then I check in the day before to confirm and they say "yes" again - and then the day of the appointment they are nowhere to be found and will not respond to texts or calls.

 

I understand sometimes someone has to cancel - but this has become a consistent problem - especially in larger Escort cities like NYC or Las Vegas.

 

I find I only have success if I make initial contact an hour or two before I'd like to meet - but that limits my options.

 

Has anyone else been having this issue?

 

No, I don't have a problem but many of them are skeptical and think you might cancel if you book so far in advance... and sometimes I send a booking fee to show my commitment,

[+ WhamIAm]

I generally book at least a week in advance when I'm travelling, and usually a day or two before when I see a guy in town. When travelling, I check in when I hit town and again the night before or morning of. Never had a problem. Only one guy has said "Call me when you get in town." I never did.

 

I've only run into trouble with day-of bookings. About 30% of the time the dude has cancelled or no-showed.

[+ Kman]

I typically have trouble booking an escort who is visiting my city (I've learned with the good ones that they usually are booked up for their whole stay shortly after arriving) but then it seems like the escorts schedule changes or something and I have to move my original time which typically doesn't work out.

[+ V-Vhitner]

I very often accept and encourage advanced bookings and have never canceled an appointment. For me, the issue is more last minute requests. More often than not, if someone contacts me for same day, I am already unavailable. I suppose the escorts who are disappearing on you are not willing to take the risk of having no client that day because they don't feel sure that you are going to come through. I think my advance bookings feel confident because we chat often up until the date of the appointment. It's not like the next time we are in contact after the appointment is booked is the day of the appointment. I would suggest to stay in regular contact with the escort, and if he is not interested in chatting with you on an ongoing basis before and after you meet, find someone else.

It's not annoying to have a client texting you that much before showtime??

[+ V-Vhitner]

As the original poster of this thread, I will add this (annoying/humorous) footnote:

 

Because I now avoid contacting an escort too early, I sometimes find when I finally reach the day to contact the escort, all of a sudden his Rentmen ad is gone or deactivated.

 

It just happened to me today. I was ready to hire someone next week, so I was waiting until next week to contact him - and I just looked at Rentmen today - and "Poof" - his ad is now gone.

I've learned to take a screen shot of any profile in interested in for this exact reason!

[TopTierTop]

I've learned to take a screen shot of any profile in interested in for this exact reason!

Or just send a message as soon as you are interested and let him know you will be in touch. This way you at least have him in your Sent mail. If it is not there then his profile has been deleted.