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A couple of different times I have seen an ad on Rentmen where the ad displays "Available Now" and I texted the escort and never got any kind of response. Ever.

 

The times this has happened have all been escorts I have never contacted before. One of them even logged off a few hours later and then logged back on a while after that displaying "Available Now" once again.

 

I understand the escort may be busy or away from his phone - but why bother advertising current availability if not willing to respond?

 

More importantly, I would expect a text later or even the next day saying he was busy - it seems like a no-brainer because each text could mean more business.

 

I will not beg anyone to respond to me, but I'm always curious as to why they bother even having an ad?

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Pile be lots of reasons why.. if you Gave them the day and time for the encounter they may already be booked or busy and didn't reposed because they couldn't accommodate you..others could be busy with work, family, friends ..who knows.. I give a guy two chances... three if they are uber hot then they are off the list..too many choices my friend to stay stuck on one that doesn't respond.

Also this current younger generation dont have the same social skills as men in their 40s and up..they don't see why it's a big deal if they don't call someone back etc

Of course I am generalizing here and there are some incredible early 20s guys who are prompt with returning calls and or texts and show up on time!!!!!

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too many other inquiries to answer all of them?.....weird vibe from your communication?......too explicit?......didn't sound serious?........he's not really into this?.......not available when you requested?.....you didn't leave return contact info?.......the list goes on

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I've been ignored from time to time after making email contact through RM. If the guy looked at my profile and decided no, well OK, just as well. But when they have not accessed my profile (I get flagged when someone does,) I don't get it. There can be lots of reasons as azdr pointed out above. The escorts who are on top of their business game, however, generally follow up all leads. I get lots of emails on RM from guys at whose pictures I have looked asking if I was interested. In most of those cases, the answer was no, or yes, but you are 3000 miles away. When someone is under discussion on the Forum, I bet their RM ad experiences a sharp uptake in hits. I admire escorts who email me to check in from time to time, whether or not we have met.

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What to do? Why, the same thing you'd do if you're in a restaurant and the waiter doesn't come over when you'd like. You can sit quietly and be patient a little longer. Or get up and leave, heading for another restaurant. It's not personal. At this stage it's just business.

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A couple of different times I have seen an ad on Rentmen where the ad displays "Available Now" and I texted the escort and never got any kind of response. Ever.

 

The times this has happened have all been escorts I have never contacted before. One of them even logged off a few hours later and then logged back on a while after that displaying "Available Now" once again.

 

I understand the escort may be busy or away from his phone - but why bother advertising current availability if not willing to respond?

 

More importantly, I would expect a text later or even the next day saying he was busy - it seems like a no-brainer because each text could mean more business.

 

I will not beg anyone to respond to me, but I'm always curious as to why they bother even having an ad?

Sometimes I miss messages on my 'work' phone. If the message is an SMS and I don't see it within the first few hours of it being sent I generally won't respond unless the client has made it clear that it is okay to do so. I have met a number of people who have partners who do not know what they get up to, and I would rather not have my response arrive at an awkward moment.

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Could you explain why? (Please)

 

Because, as @InterestingGuy said, they often do not respond to inquiries. 'Available Now' suggests available for hire, but if they will not even respond to an inquiry, they are not available. Its false advertising to me. I also think its pretty difficult for anyone, regardless of profession, to be available 24/7. It suggests desperation or unreliability.

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Because, as @InterestingGuy said, they often do not respond to inquiries. 'Available Now' suggests available for hire, but if they will not even respond to an inquiry, they are not available. Its false advertising to me. I also think its pretty difficult for anyone, regardless of profession, to be available 24/7. It suggests desperation or unreliability.

 

I don't really agree with the last part of that statement. An escort can put "Available now" and go about his day just like normal, hitting the gym or doing other errands while waiting for potential clients.

 

I think it is obviously fair to equate unreliability with not answering messages, but I think the desperation comment isn't accurate. If I've traveled to a city to work, you better believe I'm gonna be "Available Now" as many hours as I can.

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Pile be lots of reasons why.. if you Gave them the day and time for the encounter they may already be booked or busy and didn't reposed because they couldn't accommodate you..others could be busy with work, family, friends ..who knows.. I give a guy two chances... three if they are uber hot then they are off the list..too many choices my friend to stay stuck on one that doesn't respond.

Also this current younger generation dont have the same social skills as men in their 40s and up..they don't see why it's a big deal if they don't call someone back etc

Of course I am generalizing here and there are some incredible early 20s guys who are prompt with returning calls and or texts and show up on time!!!!!

In Berlin, I hired a young Brazilian escort for an 8:00 pm meetup. The guy (who was gorgeous) knocked on my hotel door at precisely 8 to the second I swear. I said, wow, you are certainly punctual. He shrugged and said, hey, we're in Germany. Quite a guy, tall, built, handsome and hung like a horse (his main selling point.) Friendly dude. I found out he speaks Portuguese, Spanish, English, German and Italian. Damn, I love Brazilians!

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I don't really agree with the last part of that statement. An escort can put "Available now" and go about his day just like normal, hitting the gym or doing other errands while waiting for potential clients.

 

I think it is obviously fair to equate unreliability with not answering messages, but I think the desperation comment isn't accurate. If I've traveled to a city to work, you better believe I'm gonna be "Available Now" as many hours as I can.

 

"Desperation" was not a good word choice. What I was getting at was that if you are "on" 24/7 you are less likely to be at your best when you get that call. Everyone needs some down time.

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Communication matters. If they don't respond at all, I know they're either busy and don't care about future business or they have no respect for potential future clients. When I contact an escort, I explain my situation and how to contact me discreetly along with the best ways to reach me.

 

It's only happened twice that an escort didn't reply, once the escort in question was traveling out of country. The other time, he didn't reply and I assumed he had no interested in my described scenario or was too busy to care about a potential new client.

 

It's all business, so there's no point in taking it personally. There are other escorts out there who are very good at responding in a professional manner and those are the ones I want to give my money to anyway. Professionals should be rewarded. ;)

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It's all business, so there's no point in taking it personally.

Amen brother.

 

There is a masseur here in Austin who has been discussed on the board a couple times. (One of "the twins" for you local boys.) He is terrible about responding when he is not available. However, he will follow up days later and if I'm still interested, we set something up. Is it perfect customer service? No. Is it totally fun when we do connect? Absolutely.

 

This is supposed to be fun. If it's causing you grief, inconvenience, or anything else negative, it's time to move on to greener pastures.

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A couple of different times I have seen an ad on Rentmen where the ad displays "Available Now" and I texted the escort and never got any kind of response. Ever.

 

The times this has happened have all been escorts I have never contacted before. One of them even logged off a few hours later and then logged back on a while after that displaying "Available Now" once again.

 

I understand the escort may be busy or away from his phone - but why bother advertising current availability if not willing to respond?

 

More importantly, I would expect a text later or even the next day saying he was busy - it seems like a no-brainer because each text could mean more business.

 

I will not beg anyone to respond to me, but I'm always curious as to why they bother even having an ad?

My only guess is that you have stats and/or pics in your profile and he does not think you would be a good match. That is a possible explanation, but still not an excuse. I often get messages from potential clients who I feel are not a good match for me, but I still reply to their messages. If I know of a colleague who might be more suitable for him, I try to connect them. If not, I just politely let him know that I don't think it would be a good match. Just because I am not interested is no reason to let his message just go ignored. Guys who behave like that are not likely to be worth your time and money anyway.

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