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My ex bf is always on the prowl for money, and is never shy to call. Especially when he's drunk (my favorite time was when he was wasted and lost on the football field at his campus, covered in mud, crying about how sorry he was. He still doesn't remember this call. My second favorite was when he lost his car keys and shoes in the Hamtons, and he called me in SF for assistance because his feet were burning on the pavement). As you may be able to tell, maturity is an issue. So, on with the story ... I returned home from dinner and drinks with friends last evening (slightly buzzed)and there was a message on my machine, asking me to wire $$$ for a road-trip that he's on (I've been relatively generous since the split.) He's in college here in SF, and apparantly allergic to work. I responded via email, and then left him a lengthy message questioning his character. I originally (earlier in the day) emailed him asking if he would like a couch that I'm replacing, and inquiring as to whether he has found work (it's been 6 months) yet. Here's what he replied:

 

"no job luck and i wont be in frisco over break. on road trip with (name deleted). we left already. be home next week and i have no place to put it. sucks."

 

When I returned home in the evening, I responded to his voicemail with a personal message, and the following email:

 

"Yet another cash emergency. You are good! Rather than pay for yourself, you opt for a trip on the dole. It's amazing that you're still comfortable with this, and that anyone still finances this. Practice makes perfect ... I guess? Don't you think that the time to pay for yourself is on the horizon? Aren't you tired of this? I guess not. Each and every time I feel bad, I will be comforted by your laziness. Are you busy making good on your repayment schedule to me? I'm quite sure that you are not. Why aren't you spending this time to look for, and secure work? This is why I haven't paid the school bill. Have you no honor??? When can I expect the repayment that you promised? That will never happen. I always knew that. That's why I never invested further. I bet that (name deleted) didn't leave his responsibilities, and ask others to foot the bill."

 

Now, you need to realize that this wasn't our first conversation on this subject. There was an "I need" a Honda Accord, and " I will pay all of the payments" past history, as well as lotsa bucks shelled out because I'm a sucker for a story.

 

Today I awoke to this email from the lovely ex:

 

"you are such a fucking loser. No one likes you and you have no friends. My friends and I laugh every time your name is brought up.. Face it....no one likes you not even your family. Do yourself a favor and quit smoking, choke on your money, and get a shrink. Perhaps get a personality transplant. You make me laugh. hahahahahhahahhahahahha!"

 

My mommy loves me :-) . I can't believe that I picked this one out of the bunch, and kept him for 2 years. Thank God he was hot!

 

Not really sure why anyone would care about this post (and you probably don't) or even why I posted it? Just amusing banter between drama queens.

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YOU GO!!!! He should have known the purse strings would be cut eventually. Take him to small claims court when and if he gets a job and take the Honda back also. I am sure that if you have been making the payments on the car you could probably legaly claim it as your own. It wouldn't surprise me if he called again in a drunken state asking for money or where to find his undies. Be strong and remember what Nancy Regan said back in the 80's "Just say NO!"

 

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Greg

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The Honda was a lease. He refused to return it, threatening to take it out of state (it was in my name). I reported the car stolen, and he spent 4 days in LA County Jail before I dropped the charges. Silly rabbit. Never fuck with an attorney. The car has since been returned to Honda, and I paid a hefty penalty. Never again.

 

He's 25, going on 16, so I felt a little sorry for him.

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"you are such a fucking loser. No one likes you and you have no friends. My friends and I laugh every time your name is brought up.. Face it....no one likes you not even your family. Do yourself a favor and quit smoking, choke on your money, and get a shrink. Perhaps get a personality transplant. You make me laugh. hahahahahhahahhahahahha!"

 

Truth hurt? Sounds like he has your number and always has had it! Doormat meet pavement!

 

You can't be a doormat, unless you are willing to kiss the concrete! You are what is known as an "enabler" so enjoy the ride that you yourself chose to plunk down your ticket and willing embarked upon.

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>I hate to sound redundant BUT! "Experience" is what you get! WHEN YOU didn't get what you wanted! There are many Takers in this World. As long as 'Enabling' doesn't become an M.O.<

 

 

I definitely agree. Hopefully this will be a one time only situation. Should I weaken in the future, I will refer my little head to the Brooklyn logic.

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>Maybe for the same reason that ChgoBoy always has to be sycophantic asshole?<

 

"Sycophantic" is defined as:

 

"A servile self-seeker who attempts to win favor by flattering influential people."

 

I'm an influential person? Thanks! I wish that you would tell Maria, because I can't get her to stop using Pledge on the dining room table(she's "servile"), even though it should only be cleaned with warm water. You end up with a wax build-up that never goes away. Maybe I'll whip her?

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"Truth hurt? Sounds like he has your number and always has had it! Doormat meet pavement!"

 

In fact, contrary to what some may think on this board, I have many friends. I have a weakness for helping people when they are in need, or even in "want." I'll take the good with the bad. I'm just grateful that Zeus grants me the benefits of financial and emotional security.

 

 

"You can't be a doormat, unless you are willing to kiss the concrete! You are what is known as an "enabler" so enjoy the ride that you yourself chose to plunk down your ticket and willing embarked upon."

 

Very wise Hawk. And so original.

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>Not really sure why anyone would care about this post (and you

>probably don't)

 

I couldn't agree more

 

or even why I posted it?

 

Obviously to get what little attention it got.

 

That's my story and I'm sticking to it

 

I am Flower

 

 

Flower,

 

Are you rotting in your pot? I love you. I see that it got your attention, and at 11:30 p.m??? Were you especially bored? You read the entire post, and even thoughtfully responded. How do you change your text font to green and blue? Did I miss the instructions(probably), or do you just have enormous amounts of time alone?

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>Funny to be analyzed

>by you though. Being that you're living so squeaky clean and

>all.

 

God, I LOVE the new regular posters here. Not only do they slash and burn exactly the right mindless, sugar-y posters, but - even better! - they've even already developed their own ongoing disputes and running personality conflicts with each other, ensuring an abundance of clever invective and snide but substantive attacks.

 

WELCOME!

 

With all of the soul-less, vacant, truly interminible "NEXT HOOVILLE MEETING!" threads, not to mention those giggly, ever-proliferating Rick Munroe "discussions" (which can truly lead someone to beg to have their feeding tube removed), I feel as though you've been sent by an Online Internet Angel to prevent this forum from dying of sappy baseless harmony.

 

Bless all of you.

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>My grandmother used to say "Good riddance to bad rubbish!"

>Seems to apply here.

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>BG

 

My grandmother used to say "what you don't agree with will make you a smarther person"...obviously, my grandmother was unique.

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