Clients with ED

[SuperJunior]

Do you prefer to know up front if a client suffers from ED? Does it bother you if he does? Mine is sporadic but frequent. I've decided to see a few masseurs since I really love body-to-body contact and I hope for some frot, but I know eventually (Soon. Very soon. July, I think.) I'll want to explore an encounter that includes more and I don't want to come across as insulting to a perfectly fine man by my lack of wood/chub. I'm not all that hung up on having an orgasm, anyway, but I'm green as grass to this process. Thanks.

[AndreFuture]

Knowing would be helpful for me, as it would help me set expectations for our meeting. I've had guys tell me they can't get hard for one reason or another, and that's fine with me, so long as they don't mind me continuimg to tease/play with them

[Jose305]

Awesome post because I get ED time to time due to medications I take. I hate it but it is what it is. I'm meeting my 1st escort tomorrow night, he's hot, don't want to let him think I don't find him attractive so I'll tell him up front

[SuperJunior]

Awesome post because I get ED time to time due to medications I take. I hate it but it is what it is. I'm meeting my 1st escort tomorrow night, he's hot, don't want to let him think I don't find him attractive so I'll tell him up front

Hope it goes great! I'm not sure I'll ever have the nerve to get past masseurs.

[AndreFuture]

Hope it goes great! I'm not sure I'll ever have the nerve to get past masseurs.

I have a feeling you will eventually

[+ José Soplanucas]

We have to find the right one to be @SuperJunior 's first. SJ, you should start a thread in the Deli asking for candidates. it would be fun.

[Rudynate]

Do you prefer to know up front if a client suffers from ED? Does it bother you if he does? Mine is sporadic but frequent. I've decided to see a few masseurs since I really love body-to-body contact and I hope for some frot, but I know eventually (Soon. Very soon. July, I think.) I'll want to explore an encounter that includes more and I don't want to come across as insulting to a perfectly fine man by my lack of wood/chub. I'm not all that hung up on having an orgasm, anyway, but I'm green as grass to this process. Thanks.

 

Most don't care - they've seen it all. You have to remember that your interaction with an escort is almost entirely about you. Of course you owe the escort respect and good manners, you have to recognize his boundaries and limits and you have to pay him, but he is there for you, he knows that, and is perfectly happy with things being that way. When you realize that, this world opens itself to you in the most amazing ways. You can have memorable experiences with special men who want only to make you happy.

[TruthBTold]

I have an illness (not contagious in any way) that could effect our meeting so I always discuss that with the escort prior to the date and then also mention ED during the discussion because meds I am taking for the former could effect the latter. I tell him that really all I want is for him to cum and there are plenty of ways for us to make that happen. And then sometimes even with ED taking place during our session a good ol' masturbation session can come to the rescue at some point. I have never left feeling unfulfilled and if you are honest you will be too. Good luck.

[Jose305]

Surreal evening met my 1st escort ever tonight - a very hot bear/cub guy. I told him up front my issue and he was a ok with it and he "compensated" in other ways - use your imagination - hint it's a bit difficult walking now :confused:;)

[SuperJunior]

I have a feeling you will eventually

I know my appearance brings to mind banjo music and "Bite down on my wallet. This is gonna hurt." I'm very, very shy in person, though. It's fun to hang out here and have vicarious adventures.

[SuperJunior]

We have to find the right one to be @SuperJunior 's first. SJ, you should start a thread in the Deli asking for candidates. it would be fun.

Thanks, @latbear4blk You are so sweet to think of me, but full on intercourse is for the future. 2040, I think. I'm probably meeting a masseur this morning and I'm still considering keeping my joggers on and asking him to just rub my shoulders.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Thanks, @latbear4blk You are so sweet to think of me, but full on intercourse is for the future. 2040, I think. I'm probably meeting a masseur this morning and I'm still considering keeping my joggers on and asking him to just rub my shoulders.

 

2040?

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[AdamSmith]

Surreal evening met my 1st escort ever tonight - a very hot bear/cub guy. I told him up front my issue and he was a ok with it and he "compensated" in other ways - use your imagination - hint it's a bit difficult walking now :confused:;)

Was going to say! The male body possesses far more than just one sexual organ.

[Jose305]

Hope it goes great! I'm not sure I'll ever have the nerve to get past masseurs.

For the record I was scared shitless! Luckily this guy came highly recommended from someone on this site. I just wished I was filthy rich to afford him weekly. Like I told him if I was 20 years younger I was too a rather cute bear/type back then I would date him as a non escort cause he's 100% my type lol

[liubit]

Cialis is a blessing to me :po_O

[Rudynate]

Cialis is a blessing to me :po_O

 

 

I've been taking 5 mg. cialis every day for several years. I got curious about the 10 mg. and ordered some from offshore. They worked great, but they lower my BP enough so that I get really sleepy.

[Jose305]

I've never tried Cialis

[SuperJunior]

I've been taking 5 mg. cialis every day for several years. I got curious about the 10 mg. and ordered some from offshore. They worked great, but they lower my BP enough so that I get really sleepy.

 

Thanks for the information. I haven't tried cialis. Viagra gives me a monumental headache and Stendra has been meh. I'll ask my doc about Cialis tomorrow.

[+ GregM]

I do prefer to know just so I know it's not me or something I might be doing wrong. I don't judge if someine has ED. Shit happens and sometimes it is beyond ones control. Sometimes a good hard makeout session and exploring with ones hands and or mouth can be just as fun if not more fun.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ Funguy]

Was going to say! The male body possesses far more than just one sexual organ.

 

Sometimes simply closing one's eyes and giving over to someone else is all that is needed for a roaring good time!

[+ Funguy]

Thanks, @latbear4blk You are so sweet to think of me, but full on intercourse is for the future. 2040, I think. I'm probably meeting a masseur this morning and I'm still considering keeping my joggers on and asking him to just rub my shoulders.

 

SuperJunior - don't even joke like that!

As I said above, just close your eyes and let him work his magic. When he says, "roll over" just do it and think how lucky you are!

[SuperJunior]

Sometimes simply closing one's eyes and giving over to someone else is all that is needed for a roaring good time!

 

I think this is the wrong forum for this, but I did have an amazing experience with a masseur today. It was what I've thought of as a boyfriend experience. Except he didn't make me pasta after. He was off to hike. Nevertheless, I was beyond gratified. The only hiccup was that I couldn't get off. I hope that doesn't color the experience for him. I'm looking forward to weekly massages. WTF is a boyfriend experience, anyway?

[+ HornyRetiree]

Thanks, @latbear4blk You are so sweet to think of me, but full on intercourse is for the future. 2040, I think. I'm probably meeting a masseur this morning and I'm still considering keeping my joggers on and asking him to just rub my shoulders.

 

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah go ahead and be naked and undraped -- give him the opportunity to massage everything -- whether it happens or not!:)

 

Do massages give you erections?

 

Up until my mid 50s, I would ejaculate spontaneously while TOTALLY FLACCID - NOT even a semi/chub! If the massage was good -- and with out any touch or stimulation near my groin -- it is all energy.

 

My first massage (I was in College) was totally draped - I ejaculated spontaneously as described above - the masseur saw the wet spot -- no swelling of penis so no tenting of drape - He started yelling at me and ended the massage

 

FROM THAT day on I always told the masseur up front that with good massages I ejaculated spontaneously - soft and w/o help - I would be undraped and I preferred that they be nude as well - Now I only go to those who will massage nude -- and it takes some help for the ejaculation.

[+ GregM]

I think this is the wrong forum for this, but I did have an amazing experience with a masseur today. It was what I've thought of as a boyfriend experience. Except he didn't make me pasta after. He was off to hike. Nevertheless, I was beyond gratified. The only hiccup was that I couldn't get off. I hope that doesn't color the experience for him. I'm looking forward to weekly massages. WTF is a boyfriend experience, anyway?

 

A bfe is someone who'll make a big dish of pasta and feed it to you. Or at least thats a step in the right direction in my book.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[SuperJunior]

SuperJunior - don't even joke like that!

As I said above, just close your eyes and let him work his magic. When he says, "roll over" just do it and think how lucky you are!

 

I'm mostly being silly. I'm one for two, now. Two surpassed one in a spectacular way. I could not believe I was having such a great experience.