This IS becoming, Hitler's MC

[Guest ChgoBoy]

My post of 15 minutes ago has been simply and completely deleted by a moderator as it reflected my thoughts to the Rick Monroe controversy as to where his post should go. Yes , it was short, yet reflective of what was censorded yesterday, by moderators, from two other posters about Benjamin Nicholas' reprise from grief to international travel. BN puts himself out there. As much as he chooses to run and hide when others have opposing opinions, this site has selected to coddle him during opposing thought. Let me make myself perfectly clear, My thoughts and best wishes went out to BN upon hearing the "news" not only here, but to his site as well. With that said, where does this site draw the line, when other members have an opinion that makes Little BN uncomfortable....Again, he chose to share his private information on this site as well as to the world about this incident. He puts himself out there, and because he is who he is, he is teflon to any critism OR any other opinion that might be valued on this site....Well In my opinion, THIS JUST SUCKS. Nobody bashed BN, just expressed a POV. Oh right, POV's must be condoned by the moderators. THis site has become, IMO, the last thing HOO ever invisioned it to be. When you start deleting and censoring thought....YOU CAN KISS MY ASS, and unlike Rick Monroe's (hug) mine is not for sale.....Thank God, you moderators, were not the framers of our Dec of Independence.

 

Please excuse my bad spelling......

[taylorky]

good for you guy...they do get freaky about that one hooker,don't they?

[LovesYng]

How "FUCKIN" true about POSTER BOY, I love it. ChgoBoy, I think your kind of new here, your on the fast track of learning the message board (kiss :* kiss :*)

 

When in doubt I whip it out :+

[Rick Munroe]

>THis

>site has become, IMO, the last thing HOO ever invisioned it to

>be.

 

I don't think it's fair of any of us to assume what HooBoy envisioned for the message center part of this site because it seems like it was always evolving, and besides, he's not here to tell us otherwise. However, I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiments re: BN. I didn't see why those threads needed to be locked. If we escorts put ourselves out there and reveal information in our blogs and posts, then we need to be prepared for whatever comes our way and just deal with it. If I demanded (and got) a thread to be locked each time someone like Doug or woodlawn got on my case, there would be an awful lot of locked threads around here.

 

>YOU CAN

>KISS MY ASS, and unlike Rick Monroe's (hug) mine is not for

>sale....

 

Hey, watch it (but thanks for the hug). Any money exchanged is for time only, and only Derek owns my ass.

[KY_TOP]

> If I demanded (and got) a thread to be locked each time someone

>like Doug or woodlawn got on my case, there would be an awful

>lot of locked threads around here.

 

Good point.

[kimly982]

What would HB do?

 

>My post of 15 minutes ago has been simply and completely

>deleted by a moderator ... With that said,

>where does this site draw the line, when other members have an

>opinion that makes Little BN uncomfortable...Well In my

>opinion, THIS JUST SUCKS. Nobody bashed BN, just expressed a

>POV. Oh right, POV's must be condoned by the moderators. THis

>site has become, IMO, the last thing HOO ever invisioned it to

>be.

 

 

~missing HooBoy~

[+ deej]

1) What deleted post? There's been no deletion mentioned in the Mods forum for several weeks. (Unless, of course, you're referring to your post that was deleted as a result of an Alert by you requesting the deletion.)

 

2) BN requested, providing compelling reasons, to have his thread locked. If you knew those reasons, you'd realize what a complete asshole you're making of yourself. Should he choose to make that reason public, he will do so. He certainly does not owe it to you, and you're doing nothing now to earn it, when he's finished dealing with family issues.

 

3) We actually try very hard NOT to move threads unless clearly justified. The last alert we got was asking for a thread to be moved and I replied that I didn't see the need.

 

You know, I invest a lot of effort fighting for YOUR posting rights here. (Just ask the other mods.) I argue AGAINST deleting posts that don't break a rule. I argue AGAINST moving threads that don't need to be moved. I'm beginning to wonder why I bother.

 

Let's just do it Daddy's way. He'll make Hitler look downright liberal. }(

[JT Brooklyn]

RE: What would HB do?

 

And I thought it was a quiet week around here. "Guess NOT" LOL :+

[Chuck50]

Without taking up for BN, cause I am really not trying to do that. Let us get real. There are certain people on here that have always been given breaks, handled with kid gloves or something like that. It has been Fact that the Escorts pretty much get the last word and then you decide. I think I may have goten a break once or twice for what ever the reason, it was known to HB, Daddy, Deej or one of the Moderator's. Let us face it. Ben is a well respected escort at least in many of our eyes. He has been a solid contributor, not to mention a promoter of thise site and a quasi advertiser with the latest 15 mins. And the real bottom line that HB tried to enforce and I am sure Daddy is now, is to be the arbritor when he knows more about the situation than we do or should. Don't you really think that it doesn't do something special or should. He has established a good repore with many on both sides of this MC and we all do love him, at least those who know what he is all about. It would be like questioning why Hooboy or Now Daddy may have given a break not saying they did to Deej or another Moderator or anyone else along the way. We don't have all the pieces to the Puzzle and they normally do. Let's get real. I think that those have given more and give of themselves in a special way deserve just a little break some times, not saying they always do or should get one. HUGS Chuck

[Guest ChgoBoy]

>1) What deleted post? There's been no deletion mentioned in

>the Mods forum for several weeks. (Unless, of course, you're

>referring to your post that was deleted as a result of an

>Alert by you requesting the deletion.)

 

Yes, Deej, I requested you delete my post of Monday which asked the question; has anyone heard any news about the tragic family matter BN made public to the world. It was my bad, as after my post, I checked his blog, and the news was all there for the world to read. I asked for my post to be deleted as it was simply my lack of investigative journalism. If you want to know anything about BN, go to his Blog, he spares nothing about himself.... MY post of 15 minutes ago, as mentioned in my post WAS deleted....Why? because it brought up this very topic. I cant prove you (or another) deleted it, but IT WAS DELETED.

>

>2) BN requested, providing compelling reasons, to have his

>thread locked. If you knew those reasons, you'd realize what a

>complete asshole you're making of yourself. Should he choose

>to make that reason public, he will do so. He certainly does

>not owe it to you, and you're doing nothing now to earn it,

>when he's finished dealing with family issues.

 

Well, Deej, thanks for calling me an asshole and fuck you. Can I say fuck you here? I guess it's ok, BN told us to fuck off, so it must be ok. It reminds me of those 8th graders that used to call me a faggot because I wore black pants and a white shirt to school. And it makes me think that, perhaps as a moderator, you should learn how to moderate and communicate and not join in the petty name calling that somehow you condone here.

Oh yes, I'm sure BN's resons were "compelling". BN needs to take total responsibility for ALL of this. I could give a crap about BN's personal life. He forced his issues on me (us) as readers and now he wants to whine because he doesnt like someone elses opinion. Maybe he should have just kept his mouth shut, but then again, had that happened, he wouldnt have been the center of attention, that he so desperately needs. Deej, I think that since BN has provided YOU with compelling reasons to LOCK a thread, YOU owe it to US, people who support this site and it's advertisers to share that very special moment with us. I know, that will never happen because BN is on the "list" of untouchables.....well, bullshit. Oh, and BTW, I dont want to ever do anything that might be misconstrued as attempting to earn BN's respect, so I can learn more about him. Is that a blonde hair between your teeth Deej?

 

>3) We actually try very hard NOT to move threads unless

>clearly justified. The last alert we got was asking for a

>thread to be moved and I replied that I didn't see the need.

 

Congratulations Deej, obviously that alert wasnt from Benjamin Nicolas.

 

>You know, I invest a lot of effort fighting for YOUR posting

>rights here. (Just ask the other mods.) I argue AGAINST

>deleting posts that don't break a rule. I argue AGAINST moving

>threads that don't need to be moved. I'm beginning to wonder

>why I bother.

 

You chose to be a moderator. We all have problems in life, if the heat in the kitchen is too hot, oh nevermind. And Btw, I dont need anyone fighting for my rights. Supporting them might be nice, but that seems to get lost somewhere around here.

 

>Let's just do it Daddy's way. He'll make Hitler look downright

>liberal. }(

 

Deej, whinning is beneath you. I have always respected and enjoyed your comments to many posts here. Are you threatening us with Daddy's insensitive hand?

 

That kind of comment around here could get your post locked and deleted.

 

Respectfully,

 

ChgoBoy, a guy who right now is just simply sick of the special treatment.

[+ deej]

>MY post of 15 minutes ago, as mentioned in my post WAS

>deleted....Why?

 

Beats me. What was in it that caused it to be deleted? 15 minutes is a pretty narrow timeframe and should be pretty easy to pin down.

 

Care to give any details?

 

Or did you click preview and then forget to click post?

 

I'm actually interested in finding out what post of yours was deleted, believe it or not. It shouldn't have been deleted unless you broke a rule.

[Jay Ganymede]

When people see intelligence they have one of three reactions; they are intimidated by its danger and thus fearful of its product, vowing to rid the world of its existence; they are hypnotized by its beautiful and thus in an ever continuing quest vowing to make it their possession; or they are aware of its creativity and excellence and thus are content with observation and education. I attempt to tell myself that I the ladder of the three.

 

Would the moderators do it for everyone else? That is truly all that matters.

 

Gentlemen, you lads are starting to posses symptoms of verbal Tourette's. Read the thread, sit back, pour yourself a drink, have sex with your most endearing stud, watch a cartoon and than post your reply.

 

The above was written by a 22 year old. 20 years senior and one still doesn’t understand...not very kosher.

[Uncle Bill]

Nicely said, Jay.

[Cooper]

"My post of 15 minutes ago has been simply and completely

>deleted by a moderator..."

 

Chgoboy, Whether your message was posted or deleted, it still receives a reply #. There is no evidence of a missing/deleted post. I've spoken to a couple of board members who told me that a few times, when they post a message, the page reverts to "login" and no post appears. Perhaps that's what happened... Why don't you re-post your message and immediately check to see if it is posted. Btw, all the moderators received your "alert" asking for your 4/22 post to be deleted and your request was honored. As for deleting a message in 15 minutes, sorry, but we don't come that fast. Cooper

[Doug69]

>Chgoboy, Whether your message was posted or deleted, it still

>receives a reply #. There is no evidence of a missing/deleted

>post.

 

This is not really true. If someone posts something which is the start of a thread, a moderator can delete it without any evidence of its deletion.

 

I believe it's also the case that a post even in an already-existing thread can be deleted without any trace (i.e., without there being a "deleted message" indicator). I could be wrong about that, but I have a hard time believing that that can't be done.

 

I've spoken to a couple of board members who told me

>that a few times, when they post a message, the page reverts

>to "login" and no post appears. Perhaps that's what

>happened...

 

I'd be willing to bet that ChgoBoy's post was deleted. He seemed to indicate that the vanished post was about BN and about that BN thread that was locked a couple of days ago. I have no doubt that whomever locked that thread would have zapped out of existence any new thread about the locked thread.

 

>As for deleting a message in 15 minutes,

>sorry, but we don't come that fast.

 

In general, this is true, but when it comes to protecting BN, there seems to be a remarkable transformation by the moderators from mild-mannered, slow Clark Kent into an incredibly efficient Superman who is always there in no time at all to make sure nothing bad is said about Him.

 

I read the post by BN saying that he would demand that the thread be locked, and literally minutes later, his wish was granted. That's hardly unusual around here.

 

I'm not saying I object to the locking of that thread. I found the critiques on BN's behavior under these trying circumstances to be extremely distasteful, to say the least. But given the history here, it's only natural for people to wonder about, and object to, what appears to be the particularly strenuous and unusual efforts which always seem to be asserted on his behalf.

[JT Brooklyn]

Well. Not Reading BN 15 mins..Finally paid off for me..LOL :+

[Guest ChgoBoy]

>>MY post of 15 minutes ago, as mentioned in my post WAS

>>deleted....Why?

>

>Beats me. What was in it that caused it to be deleted? 15

>minutes is a pretty narrow timeframe and should be pretty easy

>to pin down.

>

>Care to give any details?

>

>Or did you click preview and then forget to click post?

>

>I'm actually interested in finding out what post of yours was

>deleted, believe it or not. It shouldn't have been deleted

>unless you broke a rule.

 

Deej, Thanks for your response and your willingness to look into this. Actually, I have had three (3) deletions of my posts since Monday, which is why, I am at this point. Let's start with the "good wishes" post about BN from Monday which is now locked. If you look at the date and time stamp of the last poster, you will find me, Chgoboy, posted at 2:02 pm on Monday 4-25. This was my second post on that thread. It has been deleted. My first post on that thread, which was also deleted posted just before BN's post requesting the thread to be locked. This post also was deleted. It's as if the moderator who locked the thread "cleaned up" the thread so BN got the last word. My 2 posts were within the rules of the MC and simply reflected agreement of the poster that obviously upset BN. As far as this post is concerned and the reason for it,was my post yesterday was deleted within 15 minutes of my post and again, it reflected an opinion, my POV about, yes BN. It was not slanderous, disrespectful or outside the rules of the center. These are facts.

[+ deej]

I've polled the other moderators and nobody has deleted posts of yours save the one you sent an alert about.

 

As I've already mentioned, you may have clicked Preview instead of Post. Because of screen layout, the Preview often looks like a posted message.

 

Another possibility, since we're talking about a locked thread, is attempting a post after the thread is locked. You may have been reading the thread already when it was locked so you had "reply" buttons. But the reply didn't take because the thread was locked while you were reading it. The board software isn't very graceful about those situations but thankfully they're uncommon.

[+ deej]

>I could be wrong about that, but I have a hard time believing that

>that can't be done.

 

Anything is possible, obviously. The board is run from a database, so anyone with direct access to the database can do pretty much anything they're willing to spend time on. The group of people with such access is: Daddy.

 

Moderators only have access to the functionality exposed by the board software, and a limited set of it at that.

[woodlawn]

> And it makes me think that, perhaps as a

>moderator, you should learn how to moderate and communicate

>and not join in the petty name calling that somehow you

>condone here.

 

Don't hold your breath waiting for that to happen, kiddo.

 

>ChgoBoy, a guy who right now is just simply sick of the

>special treatment.

 

If you can't stand the idea that certain escorts are going to get special treatment by the management here, you'd be well advised to avoid this site. That has been the case in all the years I've been visiting this site and even with our esteemed founder gone, it hasn't changed nor is it likely to change.

[Bilbo]

Except, perhaps, for his seeing himself as the "ladder of the three." While it is true that many of us could enjoy mounting him, I think that he meant tho say "the latter of the three." }(

[Guest ChgoBoy]

>I've polled the other moderators and nobody has deleted posts

>of yours save the one you sent an alert about.

>

>As I've already mentioned, you may have clicked Preview

>instead of Post. Because of screen layout, the Preview often

>looks like a posted message.

>

>Another possibility, since we're talking about a locked

>thread, is attempting a post after the thread is locked. You

>may have been reading the thread already when it was locked so

>you had "reply" buttons. But the reply didn't take because the

>thread was locked while you were reading it. The board

>software isn't very graceful about those situations but

>thankfully they're uncommon.

 

Well Deej, then someone is not being very truthful and that speaks to other issues, which I have no interest in exploring. My posts were deleted, I know it because they posted. They were there and now they are gone. Simple and a fact.How do you explain my 4-25 post at 2:02pm on the locked thread. Its there Deej, just look at the last post time and date stamp on the thread....where's that post????

[Bilbo]

Perhaps, and this is pushing it, I know, but, perhaps, Greg simply forgot the title of the thread he had posted it on? Many of the titles around here are more cute than descriptive. I suggest this because I read a post just a few minutes ago from Greg which made reference to the BN hoohah.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Inquiring minds want to know

 

I'm curious why you changed your screen name. I'm not making any accusations certainly as you have been aboveboard as to who you are based on your signature. Just curious why after establishing one screen presence you decide to change.

[Guest 8mile]

I was all set to not ignore this issue as another catfight, until this information turned out to be true. It's obvious ChgoBoy attempted to post two messages at 7:58pm and than at 8:02pm. AND if by chance as deej situation turned out to be correct Benji's last post, posted at 7:58 and ChgoBoy "attempted" to post a message at 8:02 so between those four mins (4) the tread was flagged, reviewed, and locked. Four mins (4) mins? Seems VERY quick on a board where a moderator just laughed and pegged it impossible that someone claiming their post was deleted within 15 mins. Four mins, (4) mins.

 

Deej, your scenario is actually not possible actually if ChgoBoy was actually reading the post as it was being locked it would not explain how he was able to attempt to post at 7:58pm and than went back into the thread able to see the REPLY button and again attempt to post at 8:02. Deej, someone deleted his post.

 

As Usual

Zachary