Blow-job assistance?

[Guest]

I wish I could give better, longer blow jobs, but my jaw gets really tired. Are there any mechanical aids or toys that any of you guys have tried which work?

I did find this, but not sure if it will work

https://www.amazon.com/Pretty-Silicone-Slimmer-Tightener-Present/dp/B00STNDXVS/ref=pd_sim_121_7?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=Z5Z9WYT6ZEY6QYJRT8MP

Or is this supposed to work for that purpose?

https://www.amazon.com/Mandydov-Mouth-Restraints-Adult-style9/dp/B01MU4P8W3/ref=pd_sbs_200_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=SEP2CZWECNPJV2Z6BJC9

 

Help me be a better sucker!

[Guest]

https://www.amazon.com/Bondage-Mouth-2m%C2%B2-Couples-Restraints/dp/B01MT7WJ4A?th=1

[rvwnsd]

My jaw gets tired, too but I haven't found any toys or devices to help. Sometimes, taking a break can help but other times it doesn't.

 

The things we put up with for our craft!!

[jjkrkwood]

Sorry !

 

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[Gadfly22]

Harvard hosts an anal sex workshop every year. Maybe you could get in touch and ask them to host a cock sucking workshop.

I bet they'll think its a great idea! They might even give you an honorary degree!

Don't believe me? Click on the link below to read about it in the NY Post.

 

https://nypost.com/2017/11/08/harvard-hosts-annual-anal-sex-101-class/

[+ friendofsheila]

Seriously, I don't know an answer to help you.

 

Not Seriously: Could you maybe get surgery so you can unhinge your jaw like a python? Maybe that would prevent some of the sore jaw muscles.

[Gadfly22]

They might even give you an honorary degree!

 

*Doctor of psuckology!! (the p is silent)

[Gadfly22]

*Doctor of psuckology!! (the p is silent)

 

Nobody liked this? I thought it was funny.

I feel like Brett Sommers on Match Game

[TruthBTold]

My answer is that although the blow job is the primary focus there is plenty to do during it which the "host" can enjoy but gives your mouth a rest. Unfortunately, if you get a cock that is just too damn big there is really nothing to do about it (tho on the job experiences do help you see exactly what you can take). The same is true with anal however so don't feel bad.

[+ friendofsheila]

My answer is that although the blow job is the primary focus there is plenty to do during it which the "host" can enjoy but gives your mouth a rest.

 

I'm now thinking back to my first talk about blowjobs. It was with an escort. He said he didn't just bob his head up and down. He put his hand at the base so he didn't have to go all the way down, and could switch quickly to stroking the penis. That gave him a rest from using his mouth, like TBT is saying.

 

Is this part of what is happening,@Unicorn ?

[LADoug1]

Use your hand while you rest your jaw. Guys love it.

[Redwine56]

My answer is that although the blow job is the primary focus there is plenty to do during it which the "host" can enjoy but gives your mouth a rest. Unfortunately, if you get a cock that is just too damn big there is really nothing to do about it (tho on the job experiences do help you see exactly what you can take). The same is true with anal however so don't feel bad.

Let the "Truth be Told".

[jjkrkwood]

My answer is that although the blow job is the primary focus there is plenty to do during it which the "host" can enjoy but gives your mouth a rest. Unfortunately, if you get a cock that is just too damn big there is really nothing to do about it (tho on the job experiences do help you see exactly what you can take). The same is true with anal however so don't feel bad.

 

HUH ??? I cant comprehend this statement ! :D

[TruthBTold]

HUH ??? I cant comprehend this statement ! :D

 

It really does seem nutty or at least vague. What I meant was that from my experience I can only take so big a cock and look for an escort with that in mind. Way, way big means an exclusion from my list. It is not a bad thing on either of our parts. I just am not going to force myself to try to enjoy something I probably won't. There is too much eligible dick out there. The hard part for me was always more on the private dating side where I really don't get a glimpse before it is there staring me in the face. Sometimes in those situations where I have thought, "No way, no how, there's the door" I was lucky to be with a guy who spent the time to make me want it and be able to take it. It, unfortunately, is often the luck of the draw. Not sure if that makes any more sense.

[Guest]

It really does seem nutty or at least vague. What I meant was that from my experience I can only take so big a cock and look for an escort with that in mind. Way, way big means an exclusion from my list.

 

Thanks for letting me (us, really) know your feelings. Sometimes I feel as if I'm the only gay man who prefers smaller cocks. I don't think I'd ever decide not to hire a man because of his cock size, but I do feel smaller makes things easier and more enjoyable for me, especially when it comes to oral.

[TruthBTold]

Thanks for letting me (us, really) know your feelings. Sometimes I feel as if I'm the only gay man who prefers smaller cocks. I don't think I'd ever decide not to hire a man because of his cock size, but I do feel smaller makes things easier and more enjoyable for me, especially when it comes to oral.

 

So far I haven't found it a hindrance not to hire a guy because of his cock size. The two areas of play I engage in (I suppose most people do) anal and oral just don't invite a 10 inch cock. The "average" size just seems more inviting and there is an equal amount of pleasure. God bless those who like and want the magnum man. There's plenty of types to go around.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Cock-sucking is like CARDIO... there's nothing like PRACTICE to improve performance & endurance!!

 

My neck usually gives out before my jaw so if that becomes an issue then I tend to alternate between rimming & sucking cock which seems to solve the problem... no complaints so far.

[TruthBTold]

The only thing a small cock is not ideal for is one of my favorite things to do, backwards blowjobs. If a guy is like me and only goes a quarter of an inch beyond the balls when on hands and knees, it's not pleasant compared to someone with three to four inches to work with along with a firm, muscular ass (at least I have that going for me or I'd be in serious trouble) .

 

I definitely hear ya. But I figure I am always (probably) going to have to adjust my repertoire for a number of different reasons, most particularly because the other guy simply doesn't like what I want to do. I can remember being outraged when someone who I knew I would see a lot did not like to be fingered. I never could understand that it would be OK to fuck him with a dick that was a lot bigger than my finger. But I just had to move on and find some other delicious exercise.

[jjkrkwood]

It really does seem nutty or at least vague. What I meant was that from my experience I can only take so big a cock and look for an escort with that in mind. Way, way big means an exclusion from my list. It is not a bad thing on either of our parts. I just am not going to force myself to try to enjoy something I probably won't. There is too much eligible dick out there. The hard part for me was always more on the private dating side where I really don't get a glimpse before it is there staring me in the face. Sometimes in those situations where I have thought, "No way, no how, there's the door" I was lucky to be with a guy who spent the time to make me want it and be able to take it. It, unfortunately, is often the luck of the draw. Not sure if that makes any more sense.

 

 

I never met a HUGE COCK I didnt like ! Small ones on the other hand....... well.....

[+ friendofsheila]

Cock-sucking is like CARDIO... there's nothing like PRACTICE to improve performance & endurance!!

 

My neck usually gives out before my jaw so if that becomes an issue then I tend to alternate between rimming & sucking cock which seems to solve the problem... no complaints so far.

 

I agree with ZP. Some breaks makes for less stress and soreness.