I’m Horny But Can’t Find Anyone

[+ Gar1eth]

It’s not unsual for me not to be able to find anyone. I normally have this problem when I’m at home in Washington. But currently I’m visiting relatives in my real home in Texas. There have been many might have beens. But so many guys on the apps say they can’t host. And I’m staying with a relative and definitely can’t.

 

There were two guys that were possible. But they both wanted me to ‘breed them’.

 

The problems with that-on a personal basis I’d prefer not to breed if I have the choice. In addition, I have an occasional f-ckbuddy in Washington state. I think I’m the only one he’s seeing. And while we don’t see each other often, I do go bare with him. I’ve also promised him that I won’t go bare with anyone but him. (I’m on PrEP-but even before I made this agreement with my buddy, I didn’t feel that PrEP gave me the carte blanche ability to go bare with any and everyone I met. ) My feelings about PrEP have always been that it gives me some leeway/insurance for the occasional times when I have gone bare.

 

Prior to this promise, I only occasionally went bare with one or two longterm buddies -that I almost never see as they live in Texas, or when I had trouble staying hard inside a condom.

 

So now one guy when I explained about my promise, decided by non-communication that he didn’t want to meet. The other guy when I explained-and I had met him a year ago and we had had a fairly nice time together-actually blocked me on the app.

 

So now I can feel good because I have the moral high road of having kept my promise to not go bare with anyone but my Washington buddy.

 

But I also have to deal with the thought that I could have been with two different cute guys if not for my promise. Plus the blocking really p-sses me off.

 

And yes I could jerk off-probably will-but it hasn’t been that satisfying lately.

 

Gman

[+ azdr0710]

good on you to take the noble and moral high ground.....

 

sorry about that whole blocking thing, especially from somebody you sorta knew......I think blocking is just a trendy social media thing, anyway.....I'm sure the guy is just pissed he didn't get any

[+ FreshFluff]

Sorry you can't get no satisfaction, Gman. Must be frustrating because you're attracted to these guys, but they want different things. But if you look at it differently, you went to a new area and immediately found 2 guys that were interested in you.

 

There were two guys that were possible. But they both wanted me to ‘breed them’.

 

There's something kind of icky about that word regardless of context. It reminds me of a drawing I saw that depicted sperm swarming a uterus.

[Walker1]

What apps do you use?

[+ Gar1eth]

Sorry you can't get no satisfaction, Gman. Must be frustrating because you're attracted to these guys, but they want different things. But if you look at it differently, you went to a new area and immediately found 2 guys that were interested in you.

 

It wasn’t immediate. It has taken a lot of effort to find even the few guys I have. But what can you expect. Not that many guys like older out of shape guys-or if they do like tummy type, I’m not into them as they are probably my type. And I’m not attracted to my own type.

 

There's something kind of icky about that word regardless of context. It reminds me of a drawing I saw that depicted sperm swarming a uterus.

 

I agree with you. The word/phrase puts me in mind of the kinkiest types of porn films. And I’m more of a vanilla guy. But I don’t know that the word ‘bareback’ sounds much better.

 

What apps do you use?

 

Scruff, Grindr, MisterX, Growlr (but I don’t usually find many guys on that one at all because they are too similar to me. And while guys don’t have to be rail thin for me, I’m not usually into bears unless they are muscle bears or athletic chasers), and Bear411 (which has a lot of the same problems for me as Growlr).

 

In my experience in both Washington State and Texas, Grindr and Scruff have the best looking guys.

 

Gman

[+ quoththeraven]

"Bareback" is way more palatable to me than "breed," which doesn't even make sense in this context.

[+ sniper]

Is getting a motel room for one night and slipping away an option?

[maninsoma]

"Bareback" is way more palatable to me than "breed," which doesn't even make sense in this context.

 

They don't mean the same thing, though. One can fuck bareback and not "breed" by simply pulling out before orgasm. I know it doesn't make sense to say that one man is "breeding" another, but I have yet to see another word used to describe one man cumming inside the other's ass with the exception of "creampie" which somehow seems even more silly.

[+ sniper]

I've heard "seed" used.

[gallahadesquire]

They don't mean the same thing, though. One can fuck bareback and not "breed" by simply pulling out before orgasm. I know it doesn't make sense to say that one man is "breeding" another, but I have yet to see another word used to describe one man cumming inside the other's ass with the exception of "creampie" which somehow seems even more silly.

 

The problem is that creampie also means dumping a load on or near the anus. ["Close only counts in horseshoes, hand grenades, and atomic bombs."] Chaosmen.com uses a search term "Creampie/Breeding" which doesn't help, and seancody.com just uses "Cream pie" for both.

 

Visually, it happens to be one of the hottest things my perverted brain enjoys watching, so it's frustrating not to be able to search readily for it.

 

Privacy prevents me, but the word "breed" has an especially meaning for me.

[+ Gar1eth]

Is getting a motel room for one night and slipping away an option?

 

Unfortunately money-wise I can’t afford it. Plus getting away for several hours at night from my Mom would be extremely difficult.

 

"Bareback" is way more palatable to me than "breed," which doesn't even make sense in this context.

 

They don't mean the same thing, though. One can fuck bareback and not "breed" by simply pulling out before orgasm. I know it doesn't make sense to say that one man is "breeding" another, but I have yet to see another word used to describe one man cumming inside the other's ass with the exception of "creampie" which somehow seems even more silly.

 

 

You know all the euphemisms seem vaguely disgusting to me. And creampie-I’m not really a fan of cum. An escort I was once with asked me if I wanted to cum on his face. I said I would if he wanted. But it didn’t really do a lot for me. And those scenes in porn where a guy’s face is dripping or has it leaking out of his derrière, gross me out.

 

Gman

[+ azdr0710]

And those scenes in porn where a guy’s face is dripping or has it leaking out of his derrière, gross me out.

 

amen, brutha.....

[P Gren]

Not that many guys like older out of shape guys-or if they do like tummy type, I’m not into them as they are probably my type. And I’m not attracted to my own type.

Gman

Not denying your reality, and your comment made me sad